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How do you get out of an addiction to a person? 

A Relationship problem:

ML wrote: Here's my problem:

How do you get out of an addiction to a person?  And to stop beating yourself up for continuing to go back to them?

 The Being Solution:

Thanks for the question ML

Without knowing more of the details, I can't really help you create a visualization that might lead to solving your addiction problem. But I do know this, the solution to your problem is a BEING solution.

And, since I don't know details, I would assume the following:

• You know the relationship doesn't work for you
• But you're getting something from it or you wouldn't go back
• You don't really like yourself when with that person
• You hate being addicted to that person
• For some reason, you can't be yourself in that relationship

So, the question really is, "Who would you be BEING if you liked who you were being and no longer addicted to that relationship?

If you'd like to send me more details, ML, I'd be happy to expand on this suggested solution.

Hope this helps,

Darel