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THE PROBLEM

Bossy Coworker:

At a relationship seminar, Mary said,  I have a co-worker who thinks I need advice on how to do my job. She keeps leaving these unwelcome notes on my desk to point out what she thinks I did wrong, with suggestions on how she thinks I should be doing it.

She’s not my supervisor and deeply I resent her constant critical notes. What can I do to solve this problem?

THE BEING SOLUTION
( from page 166 of 'BEING' )

Mary’s problem sounds very much like a relationship problem when it’s actually a self-image problem. If Mary had a powerful self-image, she would have easily handled the problem the first time it happened.

Her question asks the seminar leader for a doing solution to a problem that must first be solved with a BEING change.

Your current BEING choice (your self-image) has set a limit
on what you may or may not have in your life. ---Darel Rutherford

The most important discovery you could ever make in life would be to realize that your self-image is the mental blueprint for your life.

How you picture yourself BEING in your chosen reality determines who and what you may or may not have from life.

Your self-concept also sets the pattern for how you will deal with life’s circumstances.

Sow an act and you reap a habit.
Sow a habit and you reap a character.
Sow a character and you reap a destiny.
-- Charles Reade

If you think you’re dumb, you’ll get grades in school to prove it. If you think you’re unlovable, you’ll push away those who try to hug you.

Your self-image has set the limits; the die is cast; your lot in life is fixed until you make the second most important discovery in life:  

You CAN change your self-image.

Yes, you have the power to redefine your self-concept. You can change the blueprint that runs your life!

If you didn’t know how to make changes in your self-image before, you do now. I’ve given you the perfect  tool for the job. It’s called a Power Pause!

I've been teaching workshops, coaching participants through their changes in consciousness for almost 40 years. The Power Pause is the most powerful tool for transformation that I've come across in all those years!

You'll find the solution to Mary's problem on page 167, in Chapter 14, Solving Relationship Problems with the Power Pause.

And you'll learn how to use the Power Pause, the perfect tool for transforming the quality of your life in Chapter 11 of BEING THE SOLUTION.

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