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Relationships
are the mirror in which
we may see ourselves as we really are
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RICHBITS LATEST
RELATIONSHIP SOLUTION ARTICLE
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How
a simple attitude adjustment
can solve a relationship problem
by Darel Rutherford
Today's success story should prove to you that no matter what your problem, you could solve it by choosing a different way of BEING relative to the perceived problem.
This story comes to us from Bola Animashaun, from in London, England. As you read this story, ask yourself, if Bola could solve her problem that easy, why wouldn't it work the same for me?
As you read Bola's story, keep in mind that we are all subliminally interconnected -- in tune with each other.
Hi Darel
I am a sensitive 44-year-old female from London, UK.
I recently split up with a boyfriend I was head over heels in love with. We had been living together and we loved each other very much, but we argued a lot over silly little things.
Then one day he left me, said he had met someone else. I was devastated. I was hurt and could not see a way to get over the pain off loss, because he did not even wish to speak to me when we broke up.
But then a sense of courage came over me, I knew deep down there had to exist a solution to this situation, So I decided to Be the Solution. What did I have to lose? Things could not have got any worse for us.
I decided to Be the Love that I wanted to receive. To only think of him in the most positive uplifting manner, whether we got back together or not. I wanted the energy between us to be one of Love and respect.
So I kept visualizing myself as this kind, loving, beautiful, and respectful person, and visualizing him as radiant, successful, happy and healthy. Then I would visualize us laughing together, being relaxed in each other’s company, and chatting enthusiastically.
I kept doing this up to 6 times a day, and within a week like by magic we were back on speaking terms, talking on the phone. Then by coincidence he got offered work close by to my home, and asked if he could stop over for a visit. He did!
We had such a good time, and he treated me with so much respect. I could not believe it.
Only 3 weeks before I was convinced we were enemies and I would never see or hear from him again. But it all changed when I decided to Be the Solution rather than the problem.
I have seen some miracles in my time, but what amazed me was the speed at which the problem dissolved. Now we are getting on even better than we did before and building up our relationship gently.
I am such a happy bunny, now. Full of spring and confidence, knowing that I can just move to the position in time and space of Being the solution to any problem I am faced with.
To anyone who may be reading this, I hope my story inspires you Being Solutions. Believe me it works, and we all have the potential to do it. Good luck.
With Love and Peace xxx Bola Animashaun
What you could learn from Bola's BEING Success Story
Two powerful principles were applied, here, in solving this relationship problem. Bola used the law of BEING in choosing a new way of being relative to the problem, and then the Law of Attraction brought them back together.
All problems must first be solved with a change of perspective. And that's all a BEING shift -- an attitude adjustment -- really is, a change of perspective.
What we're talking about, is a different way of framing the problem. Can you begin to see that changing your perspective means that you've changed your way of BEING relative to the problem?
In Bola's case, BEING angry made her a repelling force so that what she wanted just naturally moved away from her. The net result: she and her boyfriend separated. But when she changed her attitude from anger to love, she became an attracting force in his Universe and he came back.
To get real value from this example, you must see that his coming back was no miracle. It was just the natural end result of what happens when we make a conscious choice to BE who we would need to be in order to attract who and what we want into our lives. It's the same old story I keep telling you, week after week:
- Focus on the problem and your problem will persist.
- Focus on the solution and your problem will have no reality in which to exist.
If you're ready for a change of focus, maybe it's time to read the book BEING THE SOLUTION.
I'm ready where do I order it?
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an
Unhappy
Relationships
into--
Happy Relationships
How will we do that?
Well, first, we'll prove to you that your mind-set concerning that relationship is the true cause of your relationship problems.
In fact, it is your concept of reality concerning relationships that stands between you and having that relationship be how you've always wanted it.
Our intent it to change your reality concept concerning relationships and then to show you how to acquire a new way of seeing yourself in that relationship that will have you be together on good terms and happy with the relationship.
It's my intent to fill this web site with everything you need to know to solve your relationship problems.
Whether or not you choose to take the path to happiness in that relationship is a BEING choice.
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