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Friendship Skills
Rule 1.Your Friend Must Like
Him or Herself When With You
Everyone wants, more than anything
else, to believe in him or herself. This is where you come in to supply what
your friend wants.
When you see and point out an
ability or talent in your friend that what he or she hasn't been able to see for
him or herself, you will have helped your friend appreciate him/herself more.
Showing honest sincere appreciation is a good way to start a friendship.
Rule 2. Listen to your friend
with your full and undivided attention.
Listen not just with you mind, but
with your heart and your body. (body language says a lot). Listen to who your
friend is being as he or she speaks.
Rule 3. Help your friend find
their true purpose in life and encourage his or her growth in consciousness.
Ask the friend who he/she wants to
be listened to as and remind your friend whenever the conversation is not
productive toward that end.
Rule 4. Give your friend
empathy, not sympathy.
Empathy shows understanding; Sympathy supports a victim story, and the telling
of it can only disempower your friend.
Rule 5. Do unto your friend as
you would have him or her do unto you.
This is, of course it the Golden
Rule of all relationships
Rule 6. Give your friend the
space to be who he or she is without judgment.
This may be the most important rule
of all. "The space we give each other to be who we are" is my definition of
love. This also defines the true purpose of a relationship -- it provides each
with the experience of being who he/ she is.
If you are short on
friends, it can only be because you have chosen to BE someone who lacks good
friends. To solve that problem, you need only choose to BE A GOOD FRIEND who
doesn't NEED a friend and then let the Universal Law of Attraction fill your order.
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