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So, what exactly is a BEING SOLUTION?
Even though The BEING SOLUTION has been explained to someone many times over, he or she will usually still ask what I mean when I suggest that he/ she solve the problem by changing who he or she is BEING.
It's interesting that something so simple could be so difficult to grasp for so many people. If you are one of those who doesn't quite get it, let me see if I can simplify it for you.
When you and I become angry about something someone did or didn't do, we tend to think or say that he/she made us angry. The problem with taking that victim's stance is that we've given away our power to him, her, or it.The real truth is that nothing nor no one has the power to make you or me angry. You and I do that to ourselves! So, how does one solve the problem of being angry with a BEING Solution?
First, realize that BEING angry is a BEING choice. In fact, every reaction you have to life is a actually a BEING decision. You're choosing who to BE under those circumstances. So, know that you choose to BE angry. You, and only you, built that fire in your heart; and only you can put it out -- and you can do that only by choosing a different way of BEING relative to the perceived problem!
Looking for someone else to change in order to resolve your problem is just your way of adding false evidence to your victim story. No one made you a victim. You chose that role for yourself!
Once you allow yourself to see that you set the fire in your heart and chose the victim role, you can easily put the fire out and laugh at yourself for taking life so seriously. Your regained sense of humor allows you to rethink your perspective, so you can then choose the BEING Solution for your problem. Please get that all you did here was to choose a different point of view on the matter.
Choosing a new way of BEING, a new way of relating to the incident or perceived problem, gives you back your personal power and makes you no longer the victim.
Here's why the BEING shift must always come first:
A certain spiritual law, The Law of Correspondence, says ,
"Who and what you HAVE in your life must
correspond, exactly, to who you have chosen to BE."What does this mean for you? It means you can change who you're BEING and have your new reality automatically correspond to the new you. When you accept this rule as the governing principle in your life, you will have found the solution to all your problems! Why?
Because knowing this means that you have fully realized that you can create a brand new reality for yourself by simply choosing a new way of BEING.
Applying this principle: Once you focus on BEING a problem's SOLUTION, you've created a new reality in which your problem has no reason to exist. Think about it! Solving life's problems really is that simple.Now here's the good news in all of this:
Once you've chosen, the law of Correspondence becomes the Law of Attraction.
Once you've truly made your new being commitment, the Universe is bound and determined to provide you with who and what just naturally belongs in the reality you've just chosen. It's the law!
The irony in all this is that you've been using this power of attraction all your life without a clue that you had the power to choose a new way of BEING and solve your problem.
So now that you see the light about BEING SOLUTIONS, go back to main page and check out some BEING Solution examples.
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