The BEING SOLUTION For Your MONEY Problems

Your True Path To Wealth

By Darel Rutherford

 

What Is a BEING SOLUTION?

A BEING Solution for your Money problems would be is like having those problems dissolve and disappear in a flood of positive cash flow as a result of having changed your mind about who you would be in your relationship to money.

 

But of course, before you could change the way you relate to money you would have to acknowledge the fact that an actual relationship with money existed. Once you see that you chose your relationship to money, you will have found the power to change it!

 

This Ebooklet will show you how to choose your new way of relating to money—one that turns the direction of your cash flow from negative to positive. Can you even imagine what your life would be like if you had money left over each month?

 

What you learn from this small Ebooklet could eventually make you rich, or better still, wealthy. What? You still don’t believe me? Why am I not surprised?

 

But, I’m not kidding!

Just by changing your mind about whom you will BE, as in how you will relate to money, you can reverse your fortunes and be on your way to becoming rich! Does this sound like magic? It isn’t.

 

BEING SOLUTIONS are nothing new! The truth is that you’ve been solving serious problems, all your life, with new BEING choices. Every time that you’ve faced a problem in life and risen to that challenge, you made an unconscious BEING decision. Think about that for a moment and you’ll see how true that is.

 

To solve your problem you were forced to change your mind about who you would BE relative to what you had perceived to be a problem. You in fact, chose to be bigger than the problem, didn’t you?

 

And when you solved that problem…

The most interesting thing to note about your past problems-solving BEING decisions is that, each time you solved a problem that way, you really thought you were making a DOING decision. The truth about life is that you cannot make DOING decisions without first deciding to BE the one who can and will DO it.

 

The creative process in man is BE DO HAVE, not DO HAVE BE as most self-help books would have your believe. Every time you’ve solved a problem in your life, you’ve made a BEING decision.

 

But notice that, in each occasion, you didn’t allow yourself to see that your new way of BEING was what actually solved your problem.  

 

We hide from the truth, because our ego doesn’t want us knowing how powerful you and I really are!  You see, if your ego allowed you to see that you have the power to make BEING choices, your reasons for being poor will no longer hold water. The illusion of poverty that your ego maintains would cease to be your reality. So, even though you’ve solved life’s problems this way many times before, you won’t remember exactly how you did it.

 

That’s why I will be showing you here and now, how making the new BEING DECISION will solve your money problems.

 

This is how it could work for you!

Your financial circumstances couldn’t be much worse than the couple who came to me for prosperity counseling just three months ago. They had mountains of debts and negative cash flow problems that had financial disaster written all over them. On the surface their situation seemed hopeless. Filing bankruptcy could easily have been one of their options.

 

But instead of Bankruptcy, this couple chose a BEING SOLUTION for their problem, and in three months doubled their incomes.

 

Here’s how they did that:

We agreed that their primary goal would be to convert their poverty consciousness into a prosperity consciousness. I’ll tell you more about how they did that later.

 

But for now I just want to tell you that, once they were able to reverse the direction of their cash flow from negative to positive, they began to feel prosperous.  And that glorious new prosperous feeling—their new way of relating to money—allowed them to double their combined income in just three months.

 

Do I have your attention?

How prosperous would you feel if your income doubled? BEING SOLUTIONS solve problems, because problems as we have perceived them, are seldom what they seem to be. A closer look at almost any problem will reveal that the real difficulty is how we’ve chosen to relate to the perceived dilemma. It will be a BEING PROBLEMS requiring a BEING SOLUTION.

 

The BEING SOLUTION For Your MONEY PROBLEMS will happen when you can take your mind off your negative cash flow and focus your attention on its solution. This change of focus actually changes your way of relating to money.

 

So how do we go about changing that relationship?

To understand your relationship to money, you need to see that you relate to money in three very different, but connected ways—so interconnected, in fact, that you can’t change one without the changing the other.

 

The three ways we relate to money are:

1. Our prosperity consciousness or lack of it
2. Our spending habits
3. Our earning strategy

 

Like a three legged stool

Think of the three ways we relate to money as you would a three-legged stool and you’ll understand why you can’t fix one without doing something with the other two. In fact once you see how dependent one is on the other, you’ll understand why so many of us get seriously stuck in our money problems.

 

Money problems are a catch 22 situation because:

• You can’t increase your earnings without a change of consciousness, and
• You can’t have a prosperity consciousness as long as you have a negative cash flow.

 

The Spender’s Law of Money

If your money always seems to run out before the end of the month, you live under The Spender’s Law of Money which reads: Your expenses will always rise to meet the level of your income.

 

If you have any doubts about how that works, remember the last time you got a raise? The roof leaked and you needed a new roof, or the car needed a major repair. Something always happens to take up the slack, doesn’t it?

 

If you live under the rule of the Spender’s Law, the only way out of your financial difficulties is to rebel against status quo. In that case, you’ll be choosing a new way of BEING in your relationship to MONEY.

 

So how do you do that?

Let’s follow the example of the man and wife I mentioned earlier and see how it worked for them.

 

They came with a serious negative cash flow, asking for my help. I said,

“If you’re serious about wanting to solve your problem, I can help you.”

 

They said they were really ready to find the solution for their money problems and I agreed to help them find the solution.

 

I said,

“Okay, we need to agree on the nature of your problem.

 

You won’t be able to increase your income as long as you have a poverty consciousness. And it’s next to impossible to have a prosperity consciousness when you have a negative cash flow. So we must agree from the beginning that our aim here is to create a prosperity consciousness.

 

They agreed that developing of a prosperity consciousness was their goal and asked,

“How do we do that?”

 

I said,

Go home and create a list of 20 reasons why you want to be rich. I want both of you to create your lists and then compare notes when you’re done.

 

They did that and when I looked at their lists, I observed,

“Every item on your list is a way you would spend the money if you had it.”

 

They said,

“Sure, what’s wrong with that?”

 

I answered, Okay, here’s your first coaching lesson:

“Rich is not about spending money; it’s about having money—all  the money you could need for spending but not spending all of it because you’d rather have the money.

 

If your relationship to money is such that you can feel rich only when you’re spending the money, you can never, ever be rich.

 

That’s because rich is not about spending money; it’s about having money.

 

So, go back and create new lists. This time create a list of the 20 reasons why you want to be wealthy.

 

They did that, and then I had them prioritize their lists so that they could use it as a basis for creating their vision of what their life would be like BEING wealthy.

 

I said,

“Work on empowering that vision until you want it so bad you can taste it.

 

They did that, and once their desire for wealth was powerful enough, they made the BEING choice that took them out of the box.

 

Now that they were fully motivated with a new BEING choice, they could successfully deal with the problem of their negative cash flow. Now they were empowered enough to overcome their natural resistance to creating the budget—the budget that would turn their cash flow to positive.

 

Please note that creating a budget is a DOING solution that would not have worked successfully without the BEING decision that made creating the budget and keeping it possible.

 

Now, to really understand what happened here and why it worked so well for them, let’s look again at the three ways we relate to money and how they all tie together.

 

Our three relationships to money are:

1. Our prosperity consciousness or lack of it
2. Our spending habits
3. Our earning strategy

 

Earnings cannot be increased without the change in consciousness that would make that increase possible. As long as our reality image concerning money remains negative it will be difficult, if not impossible, to acquire the necessary prosperity consciousness that would allow us to change our earning strategy and increase our income—as I said earlier, a catch 22 situation.

 

But our couple in this example because they were highly motivated, attacked the budget with enthusiasm and gusto, determined to find ways to cut the budget and achieve their positive cash flow. That cash flow turned positive in the first month.

 

When we started the counseling sessions, the wife had said emphatically,

There’s absolutely no way I could get a raise in pay where I work.”

 

One month later, she got a substantial raise, and in that same month, her husband’s income increased by $400. The greater their cash flow, the more prosperous they felt. And the more prosperous they felt, the more income they attracted. The net result of their acquiring a prosperity consciousness is that they doubled their income in just three short months.

 

So let me tell you what a prosperity consciousness really is: It’s so simple you probably won’t believe me. A Prosperity Consciousness is nothing more or less than feeling prosperous when you think about yourself in your relationship to money.

 

Once you’ve created your empowered vision, built out of the 20 reasons why you want to be wealthy, you will choose to BE wealthy. Making a new BEING choice is like planting a seed.

 

Once you’ve made your new BEING CHOICE, the Universe will line up behind that new BEING commitment and provide you with everything that belongs in your new reality. Really! That’s the way it works.

 

Think about it for a moment and you will see that you’ve made your BEING choice and you already have everything that belongs with that BEING choice. See, it works!

 

BEING SOLUTIONS will solve any problem you can name because the source of your problem lies in whom you’ve chosen to be relative to the perceived problem.

 

To learn more about creating your own prosperity consciousness, you may want to buy the book, BEING THE SOLUTION, and read Chapter 17, which is a whole chapter on the subject of developing a prosperity consciousness.

 

And while you’re there, Chapter 20 is a whole chapter devoted to showing you how to change your relationship to money and be wealthy.

 

You can order your copy and change your relationship to money at:

 

http://www.beingsolution.com

 

Here are some more examples of successful BEING SOLUTIONS.

 

·        Dr. Cindy tripled her income in one year

·        Maria M. increased her income by 1/3 in one month                                     

·        Jim G.'s boss retired and left him the business

·        Dolores J. landed the perfect job for her

·        Rev. Dr. Toni L.'s new church is 10 times larger

·        Hattie P. created a loving relationship

·        Sherry J. cured herself of migraine headaches

 

            Are These Miracles? No, the above successful lifestyle changes were simply more examples of what happens when you change your mind about who you will be relative to a perceived problem.

 

 

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