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Hi %$firstname$%,

My challenge to you.

If you are not fulfilled in your life, it's because, at some point , you chose not to be. Ever since that decision to not have what you want, your ego has been busy giving you what you want by keeping you in poverty. Your ego tries to maintain your choice "not to have" by defending that decision with mind chatter. If you don't believe that, I suggest that you take an objective look at what you want your life to BE like. And if you have yet to manifest what you want, look at what has been in your way.

If you really want to check out your ego's defense reactions, I challenge you to stop right now and actually choose to be rich in every aspect of your life. (Unless you make this a resolute commitment, your ego won't take you seriously, and you won't experience the resistance to the changes you are looking for.)

Once you are committed, allow yourself to hear your ego's self-talk. If you are experiencing fear, that's your ego's defense clicking in. Did you hear the "yeah, buts," the negative mind chatter? You've been hearing that self-talk all your life. That's what keeps you confined in your box.

Last week we talked about self-deprecating mind chatter. That is just one aspect of mind chatter that your resourceful ego will use to keep you stuck. Once you have overcome the self-deprecating mind chatter there is a different course your ego can take to maintain the status quo and that is the power of logic. Like self-deprecating mind chatter, irrational logic mind chatter will use your fundamental beliefs in what is possible for you. For example when you make the decision to step out of your box you may find yourself thinking "If my life is fulfilled then that means that someone else must do without." It doesn't matter that the irrational logic of the mind chatter is not true; this mind chatter is a reflection of who you are BEING relative to the new idea outside the box. Those reality concepts are your chosen way to BE, in relation to having success/happiness in any of its forms.

I am please to announce that my new blog is now up and running.

I would like to invite you to read it at www.richbits.com/Blog.

New Blog Entry: The week of 09/15/08

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Darel A Rutherford
Author, Workshop Presenter, Life Coach

darel@richbits.com    
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