Hello %$first name$% and welcome to this week's edition of my newsletter. We have been talking in recent weeks about finding solutions to our problems and tools that can make the transition to a new reality easier. In this week's edition we will be looking at the idea - "What is a BEING choice?".

So, what is a BEING choice?

Once we change our attitude, our point of view or our opinion about anything, we have made a BEING choice (The Being Principle). This principle brings into our lives anything that we focus our thoughts on. The Attraction Principle sets in motion our new BEING commitment and brings into our life, a reality experience that must be a perfect match for our newest point of view about life.

As God, individualized, we’ve each created our own reality, using powers we never realized we had. Because we have this built-in power to BE, every thought we think and every word we speak is a prayer, and all our prayers are answered. And it all happens automatically.

That’s a little scary, when we stop to think about it, because some of our manifested results may not be at all what we wanted. Read the following examples and see what I mean.

• When we say something like, “I’m sick and tired of hearing you complain,” the answer to that prayer is, guess what—the experience of being sick and tired. Oops!

 

• When we say, “I hate my job,” we are actually saying “I am someone who hates any job I have.” In essence, we have just set ourselves up (prayed) to have more reasons for not liking our job. Uh oh!

 

• When we keep asking ourselves, “Why does the money always runs out before the end of the month?”, we have said in effect, “I am someone who will never have enough money.” We have just prayed that we will never be rich! Oh no!

 

Once we begin to realize the detriment of this kind of thinking (praying), we will begin paying closer attention to our thoughts. Since we become what we think about, and automatically attract whatever belongs with that way of thinking, wouldn’t we want to choose a whole new focus for our thoughts?

We are not really in charge of our thoughts—at least not yet! Our ego mind is in charge, and that’s why we keep focusing on what we don’t want—praying for more of the same.

So, in taking charge, we might want to begin with the realization that all our thoughts are BEING choices. What!? You don’t agree? Sorry but they are. Every attitude, opinion and point of view we take on, is a BEING choice.

Even simple preferences are in fact, BEING choices.

• Choosing what we like and do not like, are BEING choices.

• When we declare our favorite desert to be cherry pie, ala mode, we have chosen who we will BE relative to cherry pie and vanilla ice cream.

• Every time we think and every time we speak, we ARE choosing who we will be.

All our thoughts and words are therefore, far more influential and productive than we have allowed ourselves to see. Just by thinking a thought or speaking our views, those two powerful principles are set in motion and by law will manifest the corresponding reality.

This and many other recent newsletter topics are excepts from my book, To God Or AS God. If you would like purchase this book click on To God Or AS God.

Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your day. I look forward to talking with you next week. I hope you have a great weekend!

DAREL

For past issues of Relationship Solutions, click here.