...This three step process will permanently change
your reality concept.

Once you've acquired your new relationship to what you want you'll become a magnet for attracting more of it to you.

Three Minutes, Three Steps
That Can Change Your Life Forever

Believe me, your problem persists because that problem corresponds to your current reality concept.

You can easily change that reality concept with the three simple steps of the Power Pause.

That better life you want that you don't have is missing only because having a better life doesn't belong in the reality concept you've chosen for yourself.

To have the kind of life you want, will require a change in your reality concept. The Power Pause is your tool for changing the vision that runs your life and decides what you can have.

The truth is this: If you exchanged your current reality concept, (that's the vision that now runs your life,) in favor of a new vision of living life abundantly, your circumstances would just naturally change to match your new reality concept. This is true because of the two spiritual laws that govern who and what we may have in our lives. Those Laws are:

The Law of Being -- "We become what we think about"

and The Law of Attraction -- We automatically attract who and what belongs in our lives as a result of our BEING choices"

The Power Pause is the perfect tool for replacing any form of fear or worry thinking that may be blocking your path. The Power Pause is a process by which you will take charge of your thinking, replacing negative thoughts with positive. It creates a vision focused on your new dream reality that is made powerful by adding your enthusiastic anticipation of living your life as it will BE in that new reality.

But to get full value out of using the Power Pause, you must be dead serious about wanting to change your life. To accomplish that change, you must take charge of your thinking habits. You must acquire the Power Pause habit and use it every time the fear shows up in your thinking. You must be constantly alert and aware of the fear thoughts so that you can declare a Power Pause and replace the fear with positive emotions.

Notice: Your fear thoughts may not show up for you until you've actually made the new BEING commitment necessary for experiencing that new reality.

The Power Pause is a three-step process that takes 3 minutes or less to complete each time you use it.

THE POWER PAUSE STEPS

 1. For your first step,

...go to a peaceful place in your mind. Everyone can remember a time and place when they felt at peace. My peaceful place is a fishing hole. A picture of my ideal fishing hole hung behind my desk for years. I've never actually fished there, but every time I felt work-related stress, I put myself into that picture. Each time I imagined myself fishing there, I escaped the stress and found peace.

 Everyone has a place like that. Your peaceful place could be:

• on the beach, listening to the waves rolling in,

• on a path in the woods communing with nature,

• enjoying a Summer breeze while standing in a waving field of grass,

• or at the seashore, admiring a beautiful Hawaiian sunset.

Think of your favorite place and go there in your mind. Be at peace for a full minute. This moment of peace may take longer to establish the first time you try for it, but having done it once or twice, you will find yourself at peace almost the moment you declare a Power Pause in the future. 

This moment of peace, intentionally, places a buffer between you and your fears and self-doubt thoughts.

2. Step two of the Power Pause:

Visualize your life as it would be if the reason for your fear no longer existed. Who would you be BEING and how would you FEEL if your swamp were drained and the alligators were gone? Your intent in this step is to capture the feeling of well being you would have if your problems were solved, or no longer existed because you now had what you want. You're enthusiastically celebrating that victory, now! 

For your new vision, you are not looking for the solution to your problems; you've already solved them, and are FEELING the joy, the satisfaction and over all good feeling you'd just naturally experience now that your problems are permanently and solidly solved. Life couldn't be sweeter!

The important thing here, is to empower your vision with the joyful feelings of a happy ending. Generate the good feeling you would have if your problems were solved, and then experience that triumph with all the good feeling you can muster.

3.Step 3: Thank the Universe,

or whatever you call your higher power, for the problem already solved! Say, "Thank you Universe, Amen!" Your vision is empowered; you've seen your problem solved, and now, you're feeling thankful for the new reality that's already your. It is important in this step, that you feel a very strong sense of gratitude. An attitude of gratitude is the most powerful of all prayers.

 Now you have it!

The Power Pause is a three-step process for transforming the quality of your life. To effect that change in your life, you need only change the pattern of your thinking. You live in a box created by your thinking habits. Your thoughts and feelings have made you who you are now. You now have the tool for changing who you are, by changing the pattern of your thinking.

When you change who you are being, you change who and what belongs in your life. Just create the vision of your life in that new reality; maintain that vision until your ego takes over its new job, and you will be living your life in that new reality. Sound like a pipe dream. It's not.

You have the power and you now have the tool. So, use it!

The Power Pause is the perfect formula for a simple solution to all problems. How do I know this? In all my 35 years of teaching the new thought philosophy, I've never seen anything work so quickly to change the quality of lives. 

DAREL

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