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What's stopping us? We have the power to make a new BEING choice -- to take the quantum leap -- that would transform the quality of our lives forever. We could do that right now; we could take a leap of faith out of those undesirable circumstances and into the reality of happiness, joy and prosperity.

We could have already done that, but the reason's why we haven't may surprise you. As soon as we've committed to a new way of BEING, the Universe will be making delivery; it is truly primed, ready and waiting for our new BEING choice. So when will we find the courage to go for it and choose the good life for ourselves? What are we waiting for?

If we really wanted we could be having whatever we want from life, just by choosing it! Life really is that simple! Even the bible tells us, "Seek and you shall find. Ask and it shall be given." So what's stopping us? Why aren't we already rich in love, health, wealth, and relationships? Solving life's problems may sound simple and easy. And it really is that simple. The solution to our worst problem is nothing more complicated than a new BEING choice. But why can't we choose? What stands between us and having life be that great?

The problem is we have already chosen. When we were younger we came to some erroneous conclusions about life; we made up our mind as a 4 year old that we were not good enough, smart enough or big enough and maybe that we were worthless and unlovable. None of that was really true, but we have been accumulating evidence to prove that perspective on life ever since.

Take a look and allow ourselves to see that our reality concept is no more than an illusion, just our story about life. A story which we made up as we went along and it can be changed at anytime. Unfortunately our story has become our act, and we have been running our act, acting out a role in an ever repeating story, ever since. So, we have spent our whole life, up until now trying to prove to ourselves that we are good enough, loveable and worth something or that we aren't. We might want to notice that whatever we are trying to prove didn't really need proving. All this time, we have been a Don Quixote fighting a windmill. We chose our battle, our windmill, when we were just children. We decided back then that there was something we needed to prove, and now for as long as we keep running our act, we will still be trying to prove it.

We have always been good enough. The joke is we each have always been good enough, smart enough, and loveable if we could only have accepted that as our reality. So our windmill was a figment of a child's reality concept. But that child's fairy tale will still be running our life, until we no longer feel the need to prove what didn't need proving in the first place.

Our current circumstances are real enough, but they've shown up in our life because they belong in the reality of our current belief system. We may not like what is showing up but the Universe has merely delivered content, conditions and circumstances that just naturally belong with that reality concept. Once we have changed our mind about anything, we have taken on a new point of view and as a result we can expect a corresponding set of circumstances to soon follow. But the reverse is also true. For as long as we maintain a self-limiting perspective on life we will remain stuck in that box with those circumstances.

We all live in a self-built box made of circumstances and beliefs that we are stuck in based on our reality concept. Most of us are unable to venture outside of our current reality because we are afraid of what might happen if we step outside our reality, this stops us dead in our tracks. The average person is so thoroughly attached to the role of a victim that we would not consider choosing out and into a more rewarding circumstance. That is because choosing out of the victim's role would mean sacrificing our established identity.

Most of us will never choose out of our boxes because we have convinced ourselves that there is no way out. In fact, our ego's favorite trap is, "There is no way out", and it almost always works. Isn't that what's keeping us boxed in? For as long as we continue to believe there's no way out, it would be pointless to even hope for life to get better. But, there is a way out and it's called the quantum leap -- a new BEING choice. Changing the pattern of our thinking changes who we are BEING, and in case we had forgotten our new BEING choice becomes a powerful payer that the Universe must bring into manifestation. It's the law that our reality concept must manifest. As long as we stay trapped in our old way of thinking, all our self-limiting thoughts will set the outer limits for what we may have in life. To change the content in our life we must begin by imaging  what our life would be like if we were already enjoying the good life outside that box.

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Darel A Rutherford
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