RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS Series Article-Bonus Issue

What you really want from life is outside the box!

Like Dorothy, in the Wizard of Oz story, we all seek the way home even though we haven’t a clue as to where home is. Actually, home is where the heart is, but we don’t know that yet, so we keep thinking home is where the mind is. And, of course, the mind is your box, the place where your ego is in charge of the game. 

In the meantime, on our journey through life, we attempt to manifest warm, safe and comfortable places in which to hang out, a place to call, home. What I’m labeling home in this instance is your reality concept, which includes your self concept, your belief system, your story, your attachments and your attitude. You might also want to think of your reality concept as your box.  

I’m talking here about the reality concept you’ve created by choosing who to BE relative to everything else in your life. A very large part of your current reality concept is your self concept. When you stop to think about it, you’ve even created a relationship—chosen who you will be relative to vanilla ice cream. You either like it or you don’t, and you prefer vanilla ice cream over chocolate, or vice versa.

The ice cream example may seem a bit silly, but it is one of the ways you’ve chosen to identify yourself. Once you see that, you’ll realize that changing your self concept is as simple as changing your mind about what belongs in your life and what doesn’t.  

The point is that your reality and your self concept are created by using your “I AM” power to choose who you will BE relative to everyone and everything else in your life. What you may not have realized is that, when you speak the words “I am” and the following BEING statement you've created your own reality, and that new reality can be anything you've dreamed up.

By choosing a reality concept, you have determined what belongs in your life and what doesn't and then the universe through the law of attraction automatically delivers the appropriate content. Once you’ve accepted and internalized the reality of BEING an individualization of God, with the power to make BEING choices that materialize, you’ll realize that your “I am” statement has the power of the Universe behind it.

And once you've accepted the reality of having that kind of power, you might want to notice that up until now, you’ve used your awesome powers with the intention of playing it safe, hiding out in your box. You've chosen to create the reality of safety, security and comfort, instead of living your life as a daring out of the box adventure. 

You play it safe when what you really want from life can not be found inside that cage of limitations you’ve built for yourself.

I hope you've realized from reading this, that you can’t really hang out in your box, playing it safe, and have what you really want from life. What you truly want is somewhere down the yellow brick road of adventure and self discovery. “Life”, according to Helen Keller, “is either a daring adventure or it’s nothing!

Which will you choose for yourself --a daring adventure or the nothingness inside your box? Remember -- having what you want from life is as simple as deciding what belongs in your life and what doesn't.

When you join us in the next the Success Blockers Workshop we'll showing you how to know what belongs in your life and we'll be giving you the manifestors' success formula, five simple steps guaranteed to manifest  the results you want every single time. 

We'll also be showing you the way past the five reasons why you haven't taken those steps before now.

If you are truly ready to manifest a quality of life change come join us in the next Success Blockers Workshop. You'll find it much easier to  manifest out of the box results while participating in a workshop filled with like-minded people with similar goals.

On October 17, 2007 I was interviewed by my co-facilitator for the BEING Workshops Deborah Ivanoff. In this interview I talk in depth about The Success Blockers. These blockers are the foundation for my book and workshop by the same name. If you missed listening to the live interview or if you'd like to listen to that call again,  click here.

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To understand more about your success blocks, you might want to read or re-read The Success Blockers E-book.

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The above article is part of series, each designed to help you answer the following questions for yourself,
so you can attract who and what you want into your life.

To manifest greater success you must:

1. Know what you want

2. Believe you can have it

3. Have the self confidence to choose it

4. The Winner's Attitude to attract it

5. And the self worth to accept it

If you've tried and failed at anything, it will be because you've left out one of the above five steps in the process of manifesting results. Transformation is the key to changing the quality of your life and all five of the above success elements are a necessary part of the transformation process.

With that in mind, each future issue of RICHBITS  will be part of a series of articles focused on one of the 5 elements of success. As the series develops, articles will be posted on our web site, available for your future reference and review. By reviewing those past articles, anyone new to RICHBITS can be brought up to speed and be able to follow the bouncing ball of self discovery.

You can download The Winner's Secret by clicking on the book image to the right.

 For past issues of RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS, click here.

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Win at life and love by playing full out and unattached

Darel A Rutherford
Author, Workshop Presenter, Life Coach

darel@richbits.com    
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