Success Stairway
RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS Series Article Part 4C,
 The Winner's Attitude to Attract It

Why do we need a winner’s attitude to attract what we want?

What we haven’t understood about the Law of Attraction is that it works through us, as us. We are magnets attracting who and what belongs in the reality of our BEING choices. Like a tomato seed attracts what it needs from the soil, our BEING choices attract corresponding content from the universe.

Our reality concept is a seed planted in the universal consciousness that must manifest appropriate circumstances and content. Our self concept automatically attracts people and situations that correspond to our self-image. Our belief system manifests proof of what we believe and sets a limit on what can and cannot show up in our lives. And our attitude charges our magnetism with positive or negative to either repel or attract what we want.

How we feel about our life and circumstances determines our attitude and our attitude is the attracting or repelling force. Out of all five ways you, as an individualization of God, have individuated yourself, your attitude is the most powerful magnetic force.

So, how do you turn your attitude from negative to positive and attract what you really want?

With your attention fully focused on your problems, you’ll have a loser’s attitude that attracts even more reasons to feel like a loser. But once you've changed your focus from the problem to its solution, visualizing  what your life would be like with your problem solved, you’ll have the winner’s attitude and attract what you DO want.

What's the nature of the power in your attitude?

Either one of two powerful emotions determine whether you have a winner’s or a loser’s attitude. Our magnetic force is charged with either love, or fear. While focused on the problem you'll be in the survival mode which is based in fear. To acquire the winner’s attitude, you’ll want to focus on the problem’s solution and the vision of your life as it IS in your vision of the problem solved. Of course reversing the charge of your magnetic force is easier said than done.

Facing your fear

Fear is a powerful emotion that won’t go away on command. In fact, the more you resist it, the more it persists. Fear is your ego’s survival emotion, designed to protect you from harm, real or imagined. So the only way out of the fear can only be through it and out the other side with the winner's attitude.

To acquire a winner’s attitude

Begin the process by asking yourself what you are afraid of. Fear is always the avoidance of some form of pain, real or imagined. As the famous author, Mark Twain once said, "In my life time, I have faced a great many trials and tribulations. Most of them never happened. So, my friend, the only way out of fear is through it.

To face the fear, you must allow yourself to imagine the worst possible outcome for your problem, allow yourself to experience and move through the pain as though it were real. Once you've experienced the pain, you'll realize that you could handle it and survive. Accept worst possible outcome with a 'so what attitude' and you’ll have moved past your fear.

This works because any fear is nothing more than your fear of the unknown. So once an experience becomes the known, you’ll no longer fear it. To manifest anything different in your life, you’ll want to face your fear of the unknown outside your box. Each time you do that, you'll have a winner's attitude and will automatically grow your consciousness and your self confidence.

The success blockers between you and your being able to manifest the change you want are:

1. Your self concept

2. Your Belief System

3. Your Story

4. Your Attachments

5. Your Attitude

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The above article is part of series, each designed to help you answer the following questions for yourself,
so you can attract who and what you want into your life.

To manifest greater success you must:

1. Know what you want

2. Believe you can have it

3. Have the self confidence to choose it

4. The Winner's Attitude to attract it

5. And the self worth to accept it

If you've tried and failed at anything, it will be because you've left out one of the above five steps in the process of manifesting results. Transformation is the key to changing the quality of your life and all five of the above success elements are a necessary part of the transformation process.

With that in mind, each future issue of RICHBITS  will be part of a series of articles focused on one of the 5 elements of success. As the series develops, articles will be posted on our web site, available for your future reference and review. By reviewing those past articles, anyone new to RICHBITS can be brought up to speed and be able to follow the bouncing ball of self discovery.

You can download The Winner's Secret by clicking on the book image to the right.

So far in the series we've sent you 1A-5A, 1B - 5B and 1C - 3C. To review past issues, click here. In the next part of the series, you'll be receiving 4C & 5C.

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Win at life and love by playing full out and unattached

Darel A Rutherford
Author, Workshop Presenter, Life Coach

darel@richbits.com    
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