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Who would you be being if that were no longer a problem?If that person is really open to finding a solution for their problem
Here's an example
of how that works
For instance, I
asked that question of a young lady who complained about
the chaos and lack
of organization in her office.
When confronted with
that "Who would you be BEING" question, her mouth
popped open, a dumb-struck
look came on her face, and she answered,
I'd be office manager!A week later, she called to report,
Guess what, Darel. I'm now office manager!Why wasn't I surprised?
Was that a miracle
solution? No.
So, let's see if
we can figure out what really happened here.
Let's start with
the fact that her problem was solved.
So, how did it get solved?
What you must
see to understand the concept of the BEING SOLUTION
is that the circumstances
were not the real problem. And the circum-
stances, which she
saw as the problem, would never have been solved
as long as she continued
to focus on the chaos in her office as the
problem.
You see, only
one thing needed changing in order that the problem
be solved -- her
perception of the problem.
So what's a BEING SOLUTION again?
That's when you change
your perception of the problem -- that's
when you take your
focus off the perceived problem and begin to
focus on the problem's
real solution -- a BEING SHIFT.
Once you choose to
BE THE SOLUTION to your problems, your
problems will dissolve
and disappear like a puff of smoke in a
windstorm.
Next week I'll give
you the real reason why that question doesn't
work for everybody.
We humans are governed by two spiritual laws:
"Who and what you HAVE in your life mustYou might also call this second law, "The Law of Attraction"
correspond, exactly, to who you have chosen to BE."
What does this
mean for you?
Once you accept
these two rules as the governing principles in your
life, you will have
found the solution to all your problems! How?
By merely changing
the pattern of your thinking, you change who you
are BEING. When
you change who you are BEING, the second law
takes over and you
automatically attract who and what you want
into your life.
Life really is that
simple. LIfe is just complicated because we keep
ignoring the governig
principles.
Applying the principles:
Once you focus on BEING a problem's
SOLUTION,
you've
created a new reality in which your problem has
no reason to exist.
Think about it! Solving life's problems really is that simple.
With this newsletter,
I'm giving you the simple solution for all
your problems.
If
you're wise, you will be using it to make your
biggest and your
smallest problems dissolve and disappear like a
like a bad dream.
That's my intention
with this newsletter.
Isn't that why
you're reading it -- to find the real solution for
your problems?
If that's the
case, if you really and truly are seeking a solution
for your problem,
you might want to ask yourself why you're not
acting on your
intention.
Do you really want that problem solved?
Or would you rather keep your problem?So how about it?Believe it or not, that's not a dumb question!
You would be utterly amazed at the great numbers of people who
would rather live with their discomfort and unhappiness than to
face the unknown reality outside their box.
If you're ready for that change, go to
You could label this week's success story:/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\
Change your focus and solve your problemIn fact, you could label every BEING change success story
the same, because that's all be BEING shift is -- a change
of focus.I've taken this week's story right out of my book because it
best explains "what's a BEING SOLUTION?" the main topic
of today's discussion.
Almost everyone has a problem.He was ready to quit!
So what’s your problem?
In regard to that problem, my question for you is:Who would you be BEINGHere's what happened when I asked that question of someone who was
if that were no longer a problem?
truly ready to find the solution for his problem.
When J. G. (we’ll call him Jim) came to me for counseling, he was/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\
ready to quit his job. Upset with his boss, Jim said,“I love my job, but he’s trying to make me over into a clone
of himself. If I can’t be me in my job, I’ll have no choice but
to quit!”Jim was hoping I would tell him what he could DO that would solve
his problem with his boss. Instead, I asked Jim the BEING question.
I said, “Who would you be BEING if you were receptive to
being coached as the one who would some day soon take over t
hat business?”Jim’s shocked response: “Damn, this isn’t about him! It’s about
me, isn’t it?”I introduced Jim to the Power Pause, a three-step process for
bypassing his problem, to BEING its solution. Then, Jim used the Power
Pause to change who he was BEING in his relationship to his boss. Six
months later, Jim’s boss walked out the door and handed him the keys.
4. What you could
learn from Jim's BEING Success Story
(This also came
out of BEING THE SOLUTION, same Chapter.)
Was this some kind of miracle?No matter what the problem, the soltion is allways the same!
Was Jim’s good fortune some kind of miracle? Was it a coincidence that
he inherited that business? No—not really! Changing your way of BEING,
as in choosing a new way of relating to the problem, can solve almost any
problem you can name.That’s because your real problem is not with the circumstances, but rather
in your way of BEING relative to those circumstances.As long as Jim continued to see his boss as a domineering, do-it-my-way
employer, he could never have solved his problem. Any attempt Jim made
to change his boss’ way of being would have failed and he would have had
to quit. To solve the problem, Jim changed the only thing he could change—
his own attitude about the problem.As soon as he allowed himself to see his boss’ coaching as a blessing and
an opportunity, not a threat, his whole future in that job changed instantane-
ously. In that moment, Jim had transformed himself into one who no longer
had that problem.If you choose to see Jim’s solution to the problem as a change in what he
was doing, you will have missed the point. The change that solved his
problem was the change he made in who he was BEING relative to the
perceived problem.You’ll gain greater benefit from this example if you can see that Jim’s
perceived problem was never the real problem. The solution to Jim’s
problem was never a change in the circumstances, but a change of
perception about those circumstances—a change of attitude.I can just hear your mind chatter right now, telling you that Jim’s example
doesn’t fit your circumstances. As you read the chapters devoted to the
Power Pause solution to all types of problems, I think you’ll change your mind.
5. Three questions to ask yourself every dayFocus on the problem and your problem will persist. Focus on the solution and your problem will have no reality in which to exist.
Why am I doing this?
You'll be amazed
at what that question will do for you. Here's what
will happen:
Here's how
that "Why am I doing this?" question breaks down
If you've just
recently chosen a new way of BEING , the question
continually reinforces
your reason for that BEING SHIFT.
Keep checking the drop down link on my web site. I'll get back to
adding BEING success stories there. I haven't put anything there for
a week or two because of the workshop starting and I'm in the
process of redoing my web site to be more focused on solving your
particular problem.
And then, as
a bonus for telling us your story, you will receive,
your choice
of one of my three books.
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I'm still getting "keep me posted on the workshop" requests from8. Why am I publishing this newsletter
my subscribers. If you're one of those who'd like to be made aware
of the upcoming workshop, we'll be sending out notices about that in
about three or four weeks.You're too late to be part of this one. It began two weeks ago. But we'll
schedule another workshop to start soon after this one ends. I'll keep
all of you posted and like before, those who've indicated an interest,
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>=+o+=<>=+o+=<>=+o+=<>=+o+=<>=+o+=<>=+o+=<>=+o+=<The mission for this newsletter and all three if my self published
Where I'm really making a difference is when someone reads my book.
books is to make a difference. The newsletter has been my means
for promoting my books and the books and workshops have
convinced a lot of people to make the BEING shift from poor to rich.But my latest book, BEING THE SOLUTION is selling as an EBook all
over the world. It's rapidly becoming a best seller and it's not even in
the bookstores yet, except with Amazon.With this newsletter, I can only point subscribers down the path to the
Remember the elements in making a decision?
BEING shift that will change their lives. It's in reading the book, that
people are transformed. So the real purpose of this newsletter must be
to promote the sale of my book. If you think my motive is greed, let's take
a look at the numbers together.The BEING THE SOLUTION EBook sells for $29. On the surface that
looks like a lot of money for an Ebook. But what you don't know is that
most of my books are being sold by affiliates.So, here's how it breaks down. Sales are handled through click bank
who takes a percent of every book sale. Affiliates earn $12 for every book
bought through their affiliate link and after click bank takes their cut, I end
up with $12.99. that sounds good until you realize that out of that I must
pay for the printing and the shipping an handling I must pay for the printed
bonus book I send each Ebook purchaser, no matter where they live.So, why am I being so generous?
Remember, my mission in life is to make a difference. Since it costs
over $5 to print the book and in some cases the shipping and handling
comes to $5 or more, I'm obviously not making a great deal on each
book sold.As a way of my making a difference in the lives of the most possible
number of people, I intend to make BEING THE SOLUTION a best
seller. You can help me do that, get the message in the book and
make money, all at the same time. Are you interested?Here's the deal
Become an affiliate BEFORE you buy the book and then use your
own affiliate link as your avenue for purchasing the book. Your net
cost for the book will be $17 because you will have earned a $12
commission on your own purchase of the book. ( $29 - $12 = $17)Then if two other people buy the book on your recommendation
through your affiliate link, your net profit on the whole deal will be +$7.And your purchase is guaranteed!
If after you've read a few chapters, you don't agree that that this $17
is not the wisest investment you ever made in yourself, I'll give you
your $17 back, no questions asked.And, when after you begin reading the EBook, you decide you're
truly happy with your purchase, send me your address and I will send
you your own autographed copy of the printed book. I will even pay for
the shipping and handling.1. So, in this case what's the prize if you buy this book?
Now, next the question: what does it cost you to decide not to decide?
- Your investment is in yourself
- The possibility that the quality of your life would improve forever.
- Maybe what you learn will make you rich or even wealthy
- You could solve all your relationship problems
- Perhaps increase your self-confidence and self worth way beyond your current levels
- Improved self-confidence and self worth could get you a better job
- You'd change your relationship to money and attract wealthy like a magnet
2. What does it cost?
- Five minutes of your time for placing the order
- $29 minus $12 = $17
- And because of the guarantee, maybe nothing If you don't like
what you read, you'll get your $17 back.- The time it takes to read a life changing book ( a joy, not a cost)
3. Is all of the above worth $17?
- You tell me! Would it be worth $17 to have the quality of your life
substantially improve, and maybe have your worst problem solved?
What would you pay to have your problem solved -- $1,000, $10,000?Think about and then ask yourself,
"What could I possibly lose by buying this book?"
I started to answer for you, "Nothing." but that wouldn't be exactly true.Here's the only thing you could possibly lose -- Your Problem
Ebook Bonuses to be discontinued
For several weeks, I've been offering the following Ebooks as bonuses for
purchasing my book. I've decided to discontinue that offer. If you want to
take advantage of that offer, I'll keep it open for the next 48 hours.For two days only, the following 4 Ebooks come with your purchase:
Bonus offer #1: "33 Days to Online Profits" Bonus Value: EBook $29
Bonus offer #2: Ken Silver's "EBook Secrets: How to Create and Sell
Your Own Profitable Ebooks" Bonus Value: EBook $34Bonus offer #3: Scot Dantzer's "Dimes-To-Dollars:
8 Steps to Immediate eBay Profits" Bonus Value: EBook $19Bonus offer #4: "Success Interviews for The Millionaire Mindset" The Exclusive
Interview package includes: Interviews with: Charles Burke, Andy Kaufman,
Rhoberta Shaler, Tom Anton, Darel Rutherford Bonus Value: EBook $15Your purchase of BEING THE SOLUTION Book value: Ebook $29
Total value of your book purchase and bonuses: $126To become an affilliate
To get your copy of BEING THE SOLUTION and take advantage
Your total cost as an affiliate $17
of this bonus offer go to:
http://www.beingsolution.com
The place to go to become an affiliate is http://www.beingsolution.com
At the top of the page click on earn money ; fill out the click bank form and
they will give you an affiliate link. Put that link into a blank email and send it
to yourself. Then click on that link and buy the book.You'll be paying $29 and earning a $12 commission as you do.
In other words,
Go back and review the elements of the prize in this case. That's
what you'd be giving if you decide not to take advantage of this
offer.If your answer is no
You are either satisfied with the way things are or you are trapped
and can't find your way out of the cage. If you're stuck in a reality
that no longer serves you, I guarantee that my book will get you
unstuck or your money back. Knowing that, you can't lose.It can also mean that your built-in resistance to change is preventing
your decision making because saying yes to this book would put your
current concept or reality at risk.So, the consequences of not choosing is to stay stuck in a rut. That's
okay too, as long as you know that you've chosen.
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go to:
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If you've got a problem, you'd better know
that...
A BEING SOLUTION is your only real solution!
Darel
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