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RICHBITS
is a free self-help message bringing you real live
examples each week
that show how all problems are ultimately
solved only with
the BEING SOLUTION
Once you're focused on the BEING
SOLUTION, your problem
will have no reality in which to exist!
The RICHBITS
intention:
to help you find
the BEING SOLUTION for your problem.
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In this issue:
We human BEINGS are governed by two spiritual laws which,2. To help you find the BEING SOLUTION for your problemThe two laws:
- first determine who we will be, and then... combine forces to
- decide who and what we may have in our lives.
The net result:
- We become what we think about.
- What we have in life must correspond exactly to who we are.
Who and what we have in life is a direct result of who we've chosen to be.
What we do or don't do is also a direct result of that BEING choice.Conclusion:
So, we don't just have problems.
When we focus all our attention on a problem we become the problem.
But, once we focus on the solution, that problem has no reality in which to exist.
So, no matter what or how big your problem,
the only real solution for it begins with the BEING SOLUTION!
Real live examples of problems being solved with the BEING3. So, here's where I need your help.
Solution seem to do more in helping my subscribers find their own
problem's Solution than anything else I have to say on the subject
of BEING Solutions .So, even though the new RICHBITS format of sending you a
BEING Solution success story every week is fairly new, I thought
I'd begin an archive of BEING Solutions on my web site. Don't
hear me wrong on this. This web page hasn't been created yet.
In fact you're going to help me write it with your success story!This web page will have a list of problem types that, when clicked
on will take you to the the success stories for that particular
problem. That way, if your problem is not being solved by the story
of the week, you can go to this web page for an example that best
fits your situation.Of course, a lot of the success stories you'll find there eventually
haven't even been written yet. But each success story will be
posted there after each issue of RICHBITS. So, this will be an
archive of BEING Solution success stories.This will be my way of proving by example, that there really is a
BEING Solution for your particular problem.
I've created the following numbered list of problem types that can be
solved with a BEING SOLUTION.
I need your vote on the problem type that best fits your need for aWhich Problem on this list,
BEING SOLUTION. Vote by number please so I can keep score
on which problem type needs needs the most help in finding a
BEING Solution.These problems are listed in alphabetical order,
not in order of importance.
4. Today's success storySo please help me help you to find your BEING Solution by voting
- Abusive relationship
- Attracting the best customers
- Attracting wealth
- Barriers to becoming rich
- Business not earning a profit
- Cancer
- Creating a loving relationship
- Credit cards maxed out
- Dealing with criticism
- Dealing with rejection
- Depression
- Desire to get even
- Don’t know what I want
- Emotional abuse
- Financial independence
- Finding a job
- Finding your lost keys
- Finding your soul mate
- Getting a raise in pay
- Getting the money you need
- Health problems
- I don’t feel prosperous
- Improving your health
- Increasing your income
- It’s too late for me
- Lack of desire
- Lack of self-confidence
- Life is a struggle
- Loosing weight
- Migraine headaches
- Minister’s problems
- MLM business
- Money problems
- Need to please disease
- Negative cash flow
- Other
- Overbearing boss
- Owning your own home
- Personal power
- Poverty consciousness
- Problem relationships
- Raising your consciousness level
- Relationship problems
- Self-confidence
- Self-worth
- Wanting but not having
- Help me add to this list
on which problem on this list best fits your need for a solution.If your problem is not on this list, help me complete the list by naming
that problem in your response.I will then prioritize the list based on your vote, and then focus my
attention on offering BEING Solutions based on that prioritized list.
In a Practicing the Presence Workshop led by Rev. George Harris,/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\
Steve volunteered that he'd like to find the BEING Solution for
attracting new friends. In his own words, Steve said,"I don't really have any friends,
and I'd like to change that."
This is Steve's story, as told by Rev. George Harris with Steve's/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\
permission to use his real name in telling it.As his relationship consultant, to help Steve change his point of
- Steve had felt separate from others for quite a while.
- He was being overly judgmental of his skills for his work.
- He had been focusing on mostly on the negative aspects of his life.
- In other words, Steve had self-worth problems.
view about life, I assigned him a receiving day.Try a receiving day for a boost in self-worth:
A receiving day is a day the individual sets aside as a day for
learning what it's like to be open to receiving gifts of kindness
from others. For this occasion, volunteers come to the receiver's
home and do all sorts of things for him including fixing his
breakfast and his lunch.On this day, the recipient stays at home in bed and is pampered by
his friends with all kinds of attention and good favors.Since Steve didn't have many personal friends to do this for him,
and because it was part of the prescribed treatment for the BEING
shift he wanted, Steve agreed to the experiment, but he didn't think it
would work. In fact, he said he'd tried, and hadn't been successful in
finding anyone to coordinate the event for him.Fact is, Steve didn't really believe that he was deserving of this and
thought no one would show up even if someone could be found to set
it up. Steve hadn't quite accepted the idea that BEING the solution for
his lack of close friends would work.As a participant in my Practicing The Presence meditation class
in which I used BEING THE SOLUTION, as a textbook, Steve had
something happen in his life that was a highly emotional experience.
He shared this with me but didn't want to share it with the class.When I advised him that BEING someone with friends had a great deal
to do with sharing your feelings and allowing yourself to be vulnerable,
Steve finally agreed to come to class that night. When he shared his
feelings about the experience with the class he received a great deal of
support that he didn't expect. Steve made his commitment to BE
someone with friends at that workshop.His sharing was a heartwarming experience for all in the class. Steve
received even more support from the others when I told them I had
assigned a receiving day for him. When I explained how that worked
and asked for volunteers, everyone in the room raised their hands. One
lady offered to be the coordinator and suddenly the whole thing was set.
So, what had taken months of Steve's trying took one evening to set up.Steve's receiving day was a great experience for him. That day did a great
deal toward pumping up his self-worth and he made a lot of new friends in
the process. So, Steve's commitment to BEING someone with friends paid
off big time.One of the true benefits of having friends is that they have a way of making
you like yourself more when you're with them. This alone is a great boost
to your self-worth.You'll learn more about how this works when you read the chapter in
BEING THE SOLUTION devoted to support groups.
http://www.beingsolution.comAsk Steve, and he'll tell you that the secret to having friends is your
commitment to BEING the Solution to the problem of lacking friends.
In my book, BEING THE SOLUTION, you'll find many more
examples of problems being solved with a new BEING commitment.
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5. What you should have learned from Steve's story
Every problem you face in life only seems to be the real problem.6. Inspire someone with your success story
On closer look, when your intention is to solve the problem, you
will see that the real problem is in how you have perceived the
problem.Steve's reality was that he was basically friendless. This problem
persisted in Steve's life, not because friends were not available,
but because he saw them as unavailable. Can you see that this
is a problem of perception, not of circumstances?And as long as Steve maintained that point of view about life,
there would be no space available in which friends could show up.But once Steve chose the BEING solution, the exact opposite
became true. Once Steve chose to be someone with lots of friends,
the problem of having no friends had no reality in which to exist.I hope this makes sense to you because that premise is true, no
matter what the problem!
So, I'm waiting
for two things. I'm waiting for you to
choose the
BEING solution for
your problem and then I'm waiting for you to
tell us about it.
Even if your story
just gives them hope, wouldn't that be worth your
while to share it?
And of course, as a bonus for telling us your story,
you will be receiving
a copy of one of my books.
PS
When you send me your story, let me know if I should use your
name, your initials only, or keep it anonymous.
Well, I thought I'd be ready by now to announce the starting date for
the Online Being Workshop, but I've got another problem to wait out.To accept payment on the workshop, I need to have my shopping cart
set up for that, and my web master took this time to go on vacation.
So about the date
I'll be setting the date soon and I will announce the price at that time.As I said last week, this workshop will be a powerful transformational
experience for anyone ready to change the quality of his or her life.This one promises to be the most powerful workshop I've ever done--
in terms of results--than anything I've ever done before.If you're considering doing this workshop, let me know and I'll put you
on the list for first notification.
If you want to be notified, click on the mailto below:A limit will be setmailto:darel@richbits.com?Subject=Keep_me_posted_on_workshop
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a time limit instead of a participant limit. I ended up with 235 signed
up before I could close the gate on registrations.Because that number of participants was unmanageable, I was unable
to give any of them my support in the transformation process.It's going to be different for this workshop. Last time it was all email.
This time we'll have a one-hour teleconference call each week.This time I will first offer the workshop details to those who have
indicated an interest. Once they've had a chance to respond, I will
then announce it to the rest of my subscribers.In other words, those who've expressed an interest will receive first
notice and first right of refusal.
I'm also scheduling
in-house Being workshops. If you are
interested in having me do a workshop
at your church or in your
city, give me a call at 877 884 8509.
It's a toll free call. The cost
per participant is probably much less
than you imagined..
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If you'd like to learn more about BEING
THE SOLUTION, the book,
go to:
http://www.beingsolution.com
If you've got a problem,
A BEING SOLUTION is the only real solution!
Darel