I Leave Things
Until The Last Minute And Am Often Late
A Relationship Problem:
M P writes:
Dear Darel -
I have a varied life.
My problem is that I get too obsessed with doing the thing I am doing now and
forget to plan for the other parts. I don't always return calls, I tend to leave
things till the last minute and I am often ten minutes late. I know I need to
plan more and to think about what I want to do, but find this activity very
difficult. Whenever asked to think about the future my mind just goes blank.
Thanks
The BEING Solution:
M P, what you have is a
relationship problem, a problem in how you choose to relate to yourself.
When I read your problem,
it sounded like you were describing me. I have a one track mind, as well. I do
what I love and therefore love what I'm doing. So when I'm in a creative mode,
I'm usually focused on the end result desired and don't want to stop until the
project is completed.
The difference is that
I've made it okay for me to BE that way, and I'm not looking to make a BEING
SHIFT to solve a problem that's not really a problem for me.
And like you, I don't do
much planning either because, once I focus on the end result I want, the plan
just sort of comes together for me. I know the plan isn't what makes it work;
it's the being choice I've just made that created the need for some sort of
plan.
My wife used to hate it
when I'd come home on a Thursday evening and suggest that we go to San Francisco
for the weekend. She liked to plan for a week or two for trips like that, and I
always thought it was more fun to do things on the spur of the moment.
The one place you and I
differ, however, is that I'm very seldom late for an appointment. From my point
of view, M P, life works by agreement.
You have an agreement with yourself about who you will BE, and you have
agreements with everyone in your reality. When you make an agreement, you're in
effect saying, this is who I am and who I will BE for you. When you break an
agreement, you're saying, "Well I guess I'm not really who I said I was."
If I failed to be on
time for an appointment, I would have broken an agreement with myself and eroded
my belief in myself.
As I see it, keeping agreements makes one
powerful, while breaking agreements dis-empowers. The only real power any of us
have is the power to BE, and most of us have trouble seeing that that's really
all the power we'll ever need, to have life come out BEING the way we wanted it.
The thing that makes
your problem a problem for you is that you're making agreements with yourself
and then breaking them, and that's very dis-empowering.
My suggestion is that you take another look
at each one of the above perceived way-of-being problems and see each problem,
both as a way of being and as an agreement you've made with yourself. Then ask
yourself if you really want to change who you are being, or if you want to make
a new agreement about what's okay and what's not okay.
It's a spiritual law, The
Law of Attraction, that when you make a new BEING commitment, the Universe will
provide you with everyone and everything that belongs in the reality you've
chosen. Choosing a new way of BEING
and then KEEPING THAT AGREEMENT is the most exciting and empowering thing you
could ever do for yourself.
Go BE The Solution
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Chapter 28 - Once You're Committed
"To God Or As God" - Pg. 202
The Four Elements of Total Commitment
Four things will have happened in your moment of total
commitment:
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You will have complete and total faith in the power
of principle (The BEING Principle and the The Attraction Principle).
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You will have had a spiritual awakening and grown
your consciousness.
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Your self-confidence will have increased.
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You will have raised the bar on your self-worth
Your total commitment to a new way of BEING YOU would
indicate that you have all four of the above elements of your next consciousness
transformation in place. With each of your steps up in consciousness, you will
have increased your manifesting powers.
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Chapter 7 - Agreements
from my book
"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" -
Pg. 168 & 169
Incomplete Realities Can Bind You
The quality of your life will improve
when you learn that life works by agreements.
All relationships, whether you realize it or not, are
agreements with the other party about who you will be in that relationship. You
have agreements with family, friends, spouse, boss, minister, teacher and all
the other people in your life. These are agreements about who you will be, how
you will act, and what you will get in return from the relationship.
To validate your new reality, make a new agreement
with everyone you intend to have stay in your life.
Anything less than a new agreement leaves your old
reality incomplete, and keeps you stuck in that reality.
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Chapter 8 - Choosing To Be Rich
from my book
"Being The Solution" -
Pg. 97
Always Ready With The Blinders
Our subconscious mind, acting as our ego,
serves us by allowing us to experience life as our chosen reality. It
maintains that reality (the illusion) by screening out everything that
doesn't fit what we currently believe. To prevent out hearing anything
that would upset our current B. S. (belief system), our ego, always
vigilant, stands ready with blinders to prevent our hearing it.
We are all blessed or cursed, as the case may
be, with our own built-in resistance to change. The good news is that
your current perception of reality is safe and secure, protected by your
good friend the ego. The bad news is that you won't get the message I'm
bringing you here, unless you can read it with an open mind, from
outside the box you call your reality.
To get this message you will need to override
your ego's resistance to your getting it.
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