How Can I BE Rich When I Truly Don't FEEL Rich?
The Problem from D L:
Hi, Darel:
Here is my problem, never having enough money to pay my
bills on time and do many of the enjoyable things I want to do. It seems that on
those rare times I do get ahead financially, some emergency expenditure knocks
me back down again. I feel very discouraged and ashamed that I'm not doing "well"
financially despite being very resourceful and creative in finding new avenues
of funds. How can I BE rich when I truly don't FEEL rich?
Best, D L
Darel's Answer:
The becoming rich process can begin only after you've
acquired a prosperity consciousness. Once you've acquired that magnet for money
consciousness, you will be well on your way to becoming rich. You will be like a
flower attracting bees to your nectar. You will apply your resourcefulness to
ways of making money that you hadn't dreamed of before.
Until then, money will flow in the direction your
consciousness dictates; right now it is flowing away from you. The only solution for your problem is the
BEING Solution in which you choose to BE the one who has your money problem
solved.
So, what is a prosperity consciousness? You'll laugh when
I tell you. A prosperity consciousness is nothing more complicated than 'feeling
good about yourself when you think about your relationship to money." So you
were right, D L. You cannot BE rich when you don't FEEL rich!
The obvious solution to your problem would be to change
your relationship to money. So let's see if I can show you the way.
The first step in changing that relationship would be for
you to realize that you DO, IN FACT, have a relationship to money. Early on in
your life, you chose who you would BE in that relationship, and have been
maintaining that way of BEING relative to money ever since.
More than likely, your
parents were the pattern you used when you chose how you would relate to money.
It doesn't matter what your story is or what reason you've chosen not to be
rich, you've got a story and a reason, and now, unless you change both your
viewpoint and your reason, you can never, ever, be rich.
So, your steps out of that "feeling poor" box
would be:
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First, create a vision of yourself BEING
wealthy, having more residual income than you need to live comfortably. See
yourself living where you would live, doing what you would do if you had so
much money you'd never have to do a day's work again, unless you loved what
you were doing.
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Choose to BE the one
in that vision. Choose to BE healthy, wealthy and wise.
D L, it really is that
simple. I said simple, not easy!
You see, God gave you an
ego, who's job it is to maintain whatever reality you've chosen with your BEING
CHOICE. Ego does its job by screening out everything that doesn't fit. If you've
previously chosen to never be rich and want to change your mind, your ego will
reject that change with all its considerable might.
To change the content
of your life, you must first change the context. Having more of what you want in
your life will require a change of consciousness. What does that mean? It simply
means that you must change your mind about who you are.
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Chapter 23 - Your Money Barriers
"To God Or As God" - Pg. 161 & 162
The Spender's Law of Money
People with this problem live their lives under The
Spender's Law of Money, which says, no matter how much you make,
your expenses will always rise
to meet the level of your income.
Most of those governed by the Spender's Law will have
the mistaken idea that being rich is just about spending the money. Because
they've always wanted to be rich, they'll spend their money as soon as it comes
in, feeling rich only when they're spending it.
The story goes on and on, repeating with each paycheck.
Each time, when the money's all spent, they find themselves back to square one,
wondering why they're always poor.
Most spenders fall into the credit card trap, that of
spending their income even before it comes in. I want you to see that the real
trap is the mistaken idea that rich is about spending money.
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Chapter 3 -
The Success Secret
from my book
"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" -
Pg. 71
Only If You're Fully Motivated
Anything is possible if you are fully motivated. My
successful workshop graduates came desperate for solutions to their money
problems. And if you will remember, I was in serious trouble just before I got
the message that transformed my life. Notice that in each example, a powerful
motivating force was in motion before the transformation happened.
if you are to have what you want from life, you must be
highly motivated for the change you want. Without a burning desire, you won't
have enough personal power to overcome the ego's resistance.
Unless you are totally unhappy with your present
circumstances, you may not be ready for the truth that will set you free of your
circumstances. ..
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Chapter 6 - How To Know What You
Want
from my book
"Being The Solution" -
Pg. 68
The Shortcut That Doesn't Work
Don't fall into the credit card trap of
assuming that it's possible to spend your way to prosperity. Spending
money you don't have for the purpose of instant gratification makes you
poorer, not richer. Over extended credit has the reverse effect by
actually diminishing your self-worth.
It's a big mistake to assume that having
something you want, by whatever means, will somehow transform you into
being the person you've always wanted to be. This line of reasoning errs
in assuming that the having somehow changes one's self-worth. To
understand and use the creative process with purpose, you must see
HAVING as the effect, not the cause, of BEING rich.
if you can accept HAVING as the result of a
BEING choice, you will know why elevating your self-worth is the key to
HAVING what you want from life. BE DO HAVE is the only true workable
order of creation. Once you accept this premise, you will come to see
BEING as the solution to most of your problems.
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