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Your Barrier To Becoming Wealthy

The following are some of the BARRIER questions I have received from newsletter subscribers.

  • How can I forget/forgive a poverty consciousness in my parents?

  • Something in my programming is telling me I shouldn't want too much.

  • Deep down something is holding me back. How do I find my barrier?

  • How do you get past the "I'll never make it days?"

  • I have a barrier I haven't been able to identify.

  • I am successful with everything but finances. Why is that?

  • Why is it so difficult to change limiting beliefs?

"Why is it so difficult to change limiting beliefs?" wins first place in the above list of barrier questions.

Often, when we choose a goal in life, we are stopped dead in our tracks by some hidden barrier and most of us are totally unaware of the fact that we all have this powerful, built-in resistance to change.

And because most of us don't have a clue about that resistance or how to handle it, 80 to 85% of us will fizzle out in any attempt to have that better life we've always wanted. We've been stopped from having what we want in life by some hidden barrier to that success. So, what's a barrier?

A barrier, according to Webster's dictionary is:

  1. A structure, such as a fence, built to bar passage.

  2. Something immaterial that obstructs or impedes: Intolerance is a barrier to understanding.

The barrier in your way is not material. In fact, it's nothing more than a flimsy reason, a silly excuse  your ego is using in an attempt at preventing you from making the change that would give you that better life. When you take a closer look at that reason, you will see that it doesn't make sense.

Your barrier to having what you want shows up as a little voice in the back of your head expressing doubts about your chances of success. When you pay attention to that mind chatter, what you will hear is your ego giving you the reasons why you shouldn't, couldn't or wouldn't make the change that would allow you to have what you want.

In many cases barriers will be hidden from view because they are seldom able to stand the test of logic. Most of the reasons used in your ego's defense system just do not make sense. That's why they are hidden.

One of the ways you can find the hidden barrier is to choose a goal and have that barrier pop up and hit you in the face. I suggest you seriously choose to be rich in some area of your life, health, relationships or wealth and see what pops up.

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Chapter 18 - Uncovering Your Act

 "To God Or As God" - Pg. 129

 

One of Ego's On-going Traps Is Your Story, Your Act

As a small child, you reacted to life in a way, that decided who you would be from then on, or until you changed your mind. You came to an erroneous conclusion about life and how you would have to deal with it in order to survive. Maybe now you're ready to rethink that four-year-olds conclusion!

 

Your ego made the decision long ago that to endure and prevail, you would have to prove that you were good enough, smart enough or loveable enough. Your act, your on-going need to prove yourself in some way, has become your reality trap, a self perpetuating pattern for your life.

 

And because your self-concept and your reality concept determine what you may have in your life, you are destined to keep on manifesting the same need-to-prove reality, until you decide to uncover and discontinue running your act.

 

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Chapter 2 - Our Resistance To Change

from my book

"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" - Pg. 46

 

By Not Choosing

None of us wants to be poor, we just haven't been able to choose to be rich. And by NOT CHOOSING to be rich, we have actually chosen, by default, to be poor. When we came to the crossroads in life marked Rich or Poor, we took the well worn path, followed the crowd, and ended up in Poor City.

 

The first hurdle in moving out of poverty is to realize

that you are poor because you chose not to be rich.

 

You took a stand against riches, creating the mind set which would keep you poor. By default, you have chosen a life of poverty.

 

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Chapter 11  - Your Way Past The Resistance

from my book

"Being The Solution" -  Pg. 126

 

Looking At Why You Don't Have It

If you are not as rich as you want to be in some way, it's because you have some sort of barrier to becoming rich. Your barrier can seem like a solid wall when, in fact, it is nothing more serious than your point of view about why you don't already have what you want.

 

Your most important barrier to becoming rich is the one that prevents you from choosing that better life, the one that puts BEING RICH outside your box. Once you've chosen to be rich, the barriers that confront your BEING change will be less important, because by then, you would have become sufficiently motivated to overcome those barriers.

 

 

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