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When You Say "I am" or "I am not"

Whether you say "I am..." or I am not..." you are making a BEING choice, a statement of identification. in either case, whether you center on love or rejection, what you focus on will be pulled into your reality. In this way we actually create what we fear. Our fear spotlights our attention on what we don't want and that's what we manifest.

The solution to this problem of attracting what we don't want, is first to just allow "what is" to BE, rather than trying to control it. Then focus on what you DO want and your attraction powers will manifest your desires.

But the process of letting go, releasing the energies of rejection, is not a one-time event; it is an on-going process. To let go of something, is to release the energy of a powerfully deep-seeded way of being you. When you hate something, you've just naturally bonded to what you hate. Whatever you've rejected with anger and hate has become an embedded aspect of your self identification.

Any emotion is a powerful force for attraction. Anything about which you feel strongly is attracted to you. And there's a lesson to be learned in that; if something triggers an emotion in you, that feeling has a message for you. In fact, the emotion is the message. And the only way to get the message is to allow yourself to feel that emotion.

As always, the only way out is through. Once you've heard the message in that emotion, you will have released your focus on it, and it will no longer dominate your reality. The end target in releasing negative emotions would be "indifference".

The opposite of both anger and love is indifference. But you cannot release a thing from your life by forcing indifference. Your resistance will only intensify your feelings. Indifference is acquired by a gradual process that begins with accepting "what is" without intent to control, fix or change it.

Accepting "what is" does not mean you must enjoy it, just that you cease rejecting it. Begin the process by allowing yourself to feel the emotion as a meaningful experience. See the feeling of it as a necessary part of the unfolding of your being, and once you've gotten the intended message in that emotion, you will find that it will be released from your reality.

To fully experience life, is not to reject or to hold on to a part of it; it is simply to be present for the experience. Life is experienced in the NOW. When you no longer have anything to fear in life, you will be completely free.

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Chapter 31 - Living In The NOW

 "To God Or As God" - Pg. 235

 

How To Begin

How do you begin the process of creating moments of now?

 

Experience each moment as though you had chosen it. No matter what the circumstances, instead of asking yourself why this happened to you (a victim Story), appreciate what's happening as though you had intentionally chosen the experience. This approach takes you immediately outside your victim story and puts you back in charge.

 

Just as darkness ceases to exist in the presence of light, being conscious while in the now creates a positive field of energy in which fear, negativity and discord cannot survive. I'm sure you can see the awesome benefit and the gain in personal power that must result from your acquiring the 'now" habit.

 

In the now, ego mind is no longer in attendance.

 

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Chapter  9 - The Nature of Man

from my book

"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" - Pg. 219

 

...Predicting the outcome of your life is no more difficult than predicting a corn crop when the seed planted is corn.

 

Ernest Holmes puts it this way:

To learn how to think is to learn how to live.

Man, by thinking, can bring into his experience

whatever he desires if he thinks correctly.

This is not done by holding thoughts,

but by knowing the truth.

 

Thoughts are seed planted in the subconscious. The quality of your life will depend on the nature and the quality of the thought seeds you've planted.

 

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Chapter 18  - Find The Unwritten Agreement

from my book

"Being The Solution" -  Pg. 246

 

The Power of Keeping Your Agreements

It may never have occurred to you that the most important agreement you have in life is the one you have with yourself about who you will BE. What you experience as your life is ultimately nothing more than a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Your self-worth sets a limit to what you can have from life, and your self-image is the channel through which your abundance must flow.

 

The most important agreement you'll make in life is the one you make with yourself. The most important discovery you could ever make is that you have the power to change the quality of your life by making a new agreement with yourself about who you will be. Any agreement you make with anyone else in your life starts out as an agreement with yourself about who you will BE in that relationship.

 

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