Attachments:
As an individualization of God, you’ve individuated yourself in five
ways:
- Your self concept
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Your belief system
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Your story
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Your attachments
- Your attitude
Who and what you have in your life is a result of
who you are being. In becoming attached, to a person, place,
thing, or even an idea, you've identified your self with that to which
you are attached in a way that has made it a part of who you are..
To change the quality of your
life in any way, it will be necessary for you to change your mind about
who you will be, and in many cases that may require detaching before
your can move on to better things. In fact what you are attached to may
be the barrier that stands between you and what you really want from
life.
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For instance if you are so
attached to a job you don't really like that you can't quit, you won't
be creating the space for that new job to show up.
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If you are in a
relationship in which you can't be yourself and say what you think for
fear of losing the relationship, you don't have a relationship--you
have an attachment. You'll be stuck in that unhealthy alliance until
you've had enough and are able to detach.
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If you are too attached to
your opinion about the way life works, you certainly won't be open to
any idea that might make life better.
The creative process for mankind is CREATE, PERSIST, DESTROY. The
destroy part is where we detach from the old to make room for the new. The
point being that before anything better can show up in your life, you must
first create the space for it to show up by detaching from what you've
previously created.
Now, let’s suppose you desperately wanted to change the quality of your life and improve your
circumstances. You might want to notice that for as long as you are
attached your formula about how life works, you won't be able to hear, or
even listen to a formula that works better.
Perhaps in reading this, you
will begin to ask yourself if you are so attached to your current point of
view that you wouldn't consider changing it, And while you're thinking about
it, you might want to remember that what you have has you if your would feel
lost in letting it go.
Believe me! Manifesting the out-of-
the-box results you want is nothing more complicated than taking a long hard
look at what you've manifested so far as a result of how you've individuate
yourself. Then if there's something you think needs changing, being willing
to redefine yourself with a new BEING choice. Just remember that you must
create the space for the new by detaching from the old.
If you are truly ready to
manifest a quality of life change come join us in the next Success Blockers
Workshop. You'll find it much easier to
manifest out of the box results while participating in a workshop filled
with like-minded people with similar goals
If you weren't there, you
missed a great call on October 17. If you'd like to listen to that call
click here
And don't forget, the barriers
between you and your being able to manifest the change you want are:
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Your self concept
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Your Belief System
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Your Story
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Your Attachments
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Your Attitude
To learn more about
the Success Blockers Workshop,
click here.
To understand more
about your greatest barriers to further success in life, you might want to
read or re-read The Success Blockers E-book.
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Legend
The
above article is part of series, each designed to help you answer the
following questions for yourself,
so you can attract who and what you want into your
life.
To manifest
greater success you must:
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Know what you want
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Believe you can have it
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Have the self confidence to choose it
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The Winner's Attitude to attract
it
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And the self worth to accept it
If you've tried and failed at
anything, it will be because you've left out one of the above five steps in
the process of manifesting results. Transformation is the key to changing
the quality of your life and all five of the above success elements are a
necessary part of the transformation process.
With that in mind, each future issue
of RICHBITS will be part of a series of articles focused on one of the
5 elements of success. As the series develops, articles will be posted on our
web site, available for your future reference and review. By reviewing those
past articles, anyone new to RICHBITS can be brought up to speed and be able
to follow the bouncing ball of self discovery.
