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If you didn't read last week's newsletter, 145RB -
Create-Persist-Destroy, you may want to go to the end of this
newsletter and click on the link for past issues and read 145RB before
continuing with this week's 146RB - The Destroy Process.
The Destroy Process
The Eternal Mandate of Spirit - is that we continue to grow in consciousness. And that
can't happen as long as we remain solidly attached to the current reality.
We've realized a dream, but that dream of a reality no longer provides the
satisfaction it once did. It really is time to move on. It is time to give up
being who we are in favor of who we want to be. The detachment process is called "DESTROY".
Destroy is a
necessary part of the cycle because it opens the door to a new beginning. But,
if you are not aware of the destroy process, you could spend over half your life
on the down side of the cycle while your ego resists transformations. Staying
too long in
Destroy
is a detour from life.
Ego builds reality with the idea that
security can be had only by hanging on to the status quo, while spirit moves us
in the opposite direction of letting go and moving on.
Spirit in us knows that real security can only come from
discovering who we really are. Ego thinks we
already know.
Ego's job of maintaining whatever
illusion of reality we've chosen for ourselves is accomplished by screening out
anything that doesn't fit. It feels threatened every time we propose a change in
that reality.
Ego and spirit can be a great team,
because spirit chooses who we shall be and ego provides us with the reality of
that experience. But whenever it's time to choose a new reality, ego and spirit
are at cross-purposes, for as long as it takes ego to accept the new reality.
Overcoming ego's resistance to change will be easier if you recognize the
holding back for what it is.
Ego's problem is that it has taken on
the identity we've chosen for ourselves. Ego is the living manifestation of our
self-concept being demonstrated as a material reality. You will have a better
understanding of the ego's resistance to change, when you realize that a
transformation, for the ego, is like dying in order to be reborn into that new
identity. And since ego is never happy with the idea of dying, it just naturally resists the change.
We've all experienced pain and
discontent in our lives, while in the process of destroying our attachment to a
job or a relationship. Our identity was so tied into those relationships, we
couldn't give them up without a great sense of loss. The detachment process is
often a time of great depression in our lives.
But it needn't be
that way.
Destroy is a rough ride made easier when you
know the shortcut. First, learn to recognize
Destroy
when it happens, accepting it as a necessary part of the self-discovery process.
Just remember that ego is in charge of our lives most of the time. If you want
to short-cut the
Destroy process, you will need to learn how to
overcome the ego's fear of change.
The Destroy Shortcut
The Secret to The Shortcut
Know that the purpose of
Destroy
is to free you from your current reality so you can choose a new and better
reality. The pain will go away as soon as you choose.
The deep depression often experienced
in the final stages of
Destroy is your ego resisting transformation. Your ego,
knowing that it must die in order to be reborn, resists the transformation with
all its considerable might.
The Secret to The Bypass
Shed your tears and get it over with. Complete the
process as quickly as possible.
Dying is never fun for the ego, but the experience is
similar to that of the caterpillar waking up to discover it wings. It can fly.
Being reborn is a great and glorious experience; don't
wait for the ego's permission to be reborn. Discover your wings and fly now.
Choose!
Understanding the process
and then accepting responsibility
for your place on the cycle, gives you the power to eliminate much of the pain
that usually comes with the
Destroy
process. You can take charge of your life by choosing out of
Destroy
and into
Create
at any time.
The sooner you detach yourself
from whatever
you can't seem to do without,
the better.
We have each been traveling this yellow brick road toward
a higher consciousness all of our lives, without suspecting the direction or the
destination. Somewhere down this road, we will finally come to know who we
really are.
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The Destroy Process
is from
"The Why Aren't You Rich
Workbook"
Pg.
59 & 60
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Chapter 6 - The Cycle
Create-Persist-Destroy
from my book
"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" -
Pg. 145
Success is defined as the completion of
anything attempted and the satisfaction of completion rewards us for
accomplishing that mission. But satisfaction never lasts. And when we
are no longer satisfied with our circumstances, the resulting
dissatisfaction sets the
DESTROY
Process in motion.
In fact, the
DESTROY
phase of the cycle actually begins in the moment of completing our goal.
Our spirit knows that this minor accomplishment does not fulfill the
true purpose of our life; it is merely one step in that direction.
Before we can move on to a greater self-awareness, we must, each time,
sooner or later,
DESTROY
our attachment to what we have just
CREATED.
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Chapter 19 - Find Yourself On The
Cycle
from my book
"Being The Solution" -
Pg 252
The Detachment Process
One would assume that the first step in the
creating of a new reality would be to create. Not so! The first step
toward that bright, shiny new reality for you, is when you sever your
attachment to the old reality.
Once you accept the detachment process as a
necessary part of the on-going process of growing in consciousness, you
can move in, through and out of destroy quickly. Once you learn to read
the signals, you can short cut your way out of the sadness and the
unhappiness of the detachment process and get on with your life.
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Chapter 11, You Have Amnesia,
from my book
"To God Or As God" - Pg 103
The creative process for
mankind is BE DO HAVE. This is the only order of creation that works for
us, and each step in the creative process is essential to the next step.
You can't skip any of the steps. You must BE before you can DO and DO
before you can HAVE.
Where
We Get Stuck
It is in the HAVING part of the cycle that we
become attached, and then we're stuck, unwilling to let go of our
attachment to the status quo. Detaching is essential to the creative
process and it is the most difficult step. Notice that you cannot get to
where you want to be without leaving where you are now.
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