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Barriers - Barriers To Whatever Form Of Riches

Fills Your Need To Be Whole And Complete

I have a doctor friend who earns an income far above the average. For years, I tried to talk him into investing his surplus income into ways that would earn him residual income, but my words were falling on deaf ears. Why? He couldn't hear me because he had a barrier to becoming rich.

Then one day, we began to look for his barrier to becoming rich. And here is what we found:  When he was seven, riding in the back seat of his parent's car, he overheard his parents comment on their neighbor's new car. Here is what he heard them say, "They must have stolen the money to buy that car. They couldn't possibly have come by it honestly."

Based on that remark, his seven year old mind concluded: "Rich people are the bad guys. I'll never want to be one of them!"

His barrier, like all barriers, was built out of flimsy logic, a wicker basket that could never hold water long enough to get the basket out of the well.

A Barrier to Another Form of Riches

I spent a number of my early years believing that nobody loved me. Where did that conclusion come from? When I was maybe 4 or 5 years old, I followed my older brother to school one day. When he finally noticed me, we were only a half block from his school. He chased me all the way home, angry because I was making him late for school.

Like my "nobody loves me barrier", all self-limiting barriers are ridiculous, erroneous conclusions based on emotional reactions to some insignificant happening, or on some form of misinformation. As flimsy as they may be, those barriers are there, standing between you and your being able to have the life you want.

If you are not rich in whatever you feel lacking in your life (health, relationships, wealth), it is because you have some sort of barrier that stands between you and your choosing to BE rich.

Almost everyone wants something from life that they don't have. They don't have it because they haven't chosen to BE the one to whom that something belongs. They haven't chosen to BE that successful because they have hidden barriers to making that BEING commitment.

My first book asks the question, "So, Why Aren't You Rich?" with the intention of putting you in touch with your barrier to becoming rich.

My second book, "The Why Aren't You Rich Workbook" is filled with exercises designed to help you remove those barriers.

My third book "Being The Solution", shows you how to choose your way past those barriers. After you've chosen, your barrier will still be there, but once you've made your new BEING commitment, you'll be dealing with that barrier from a position of power.

My fourth book "To God Or As God", will help you understand what that power looks like in you and how it works. You will learn there's no limit to your manifesting powers, other than those foolish ones you've set for yourself.

Once you've chosen to be rich, your barrier to becoming rich will have no more significance than a detour sign would if you were traveling from Los Angeles to New York in your new car.

The "I'll Never Be One of Them" Barrier

Once my doctor friend uncovered his barrier to becoming rich, and considered the source of that misinformation, he was able to easily choose past it.

He made his new BEING choice soon after removing that barrier, and is now well on his way to becoming wealthy. Please note, that the means by which he could have become wealthy were available to him for all those years of being held back by that barrier.

Only after he made the new BEING choice was he able to see the opportunities for becoming wealthy and take advantage of them.

But he came through the back door, so to speak. He dealt with his barrier prior to choosing to BE rich. Now I have a better way.

In my book "Being The Solution" I've written about what I feel is the best way to deal with your barrier and that is, to simply choose past it. Once you've chosen past your barrier, it will still be there, but now, you'll have the power and adequate motivation to deal with that barrier as an insignificant detour on your way toward your chosen form of riches.

So, How Do You Choose Past A Barrier?

Use your imagination to visualize what your life would be like if you were as rich as you could ever want to be in whatever form of riches fills your need to be whole and complete.

Once you've added the power of enthusiasm, joy and excitement to that vision, you will be adequately motivated to make your new BEING commitment.

Can you see how much easier the handling of your own barrier would be, if you were seeing it as a minor obstacle on your exciting and enthusiastic journey toward achieving your dream reality?

And Then There's My "Nobody Loves Me Barrier"

For many of my early years, I lived my life out of a reality, based on the false premise that nobody loved me. But it is important to realize that there was absolutely no truth in that premise. It was true for me only because I perceived it to be.

My problem was merely the effect, the net result of a BEING choice, made out of a childish reaction to an insignificant incident that I had made significant. Most people would be utterly amazed at the number of barriers in their life that are based on that kind of misinformation.

At any time, had I know then what I know now, I could have easily chosen my way past that barrier. Back then, I had a victim story to tell. Now, I know that there are no victims. There are only the consequences of poorly made BEING choices. I suffered all those years needlessly.

The power of choice is there; it's always been there waiting for you to find your inner power and then to use it.

The only thing necessary to change the quality of your life is that you change the pattern of your thinking. You can do that today, tomorrow, next week or never. The choice is yours to make.

The Law of BeingWe become what we think about.

The Law of Attraction: What you have in life must correspond exactly to who you are.

Life Is A BEING Choice

Every moment of your life requires a BEING choice. Every situation you face requires a BEING choice. In each situation you must choose who you will be before you can deal with it.

When you allow yourself to see that all of life is a BEING choice, when you see the light, you'll realize that the solution for your problem requires nothing more or less than a new BEING choice.

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Chapter 1, The Quantum Leap,

from my book

 "To God Or As God" - Pg 10.

 

The Quantum Leap

Choosing out of unhappiness into happiness is a quantum leap you could take at any moment of now. Why not choose happiness now? The quantum leap happens any time you change your mind about who you are, or who you will be. It also happens once you've change your mind about what you believe. That quantum leap, in each case, will be a transformation in consciousness.

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Chapter 2 - Our Resistance To Change

from my book

"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" - Pg. 48

 

The Hidden Reasons

Our reaction to a childhood experience can leave us with an attitude problem that will haunt us for the rest of our lives. We chose in that moment who we would be under those circumstances. And now, old enough to know better, we still react in the same way whenever faced with the same or similar circumstances.

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Chapter 1 - Poverty Is A State Of Being

from my book

"Being The Solution" -  Pg. 11

 

Defining Rich Or Poor

Although rich is about who you are, not about what you have, what you have is truly a measure of who you are.

 

Chapter 7 - Creating A Burning Desire - Pg. 77

 

One of life's greatest truths is what we believe creates our reality. The problem is that most of us bet our lives that the exact opposite is true, that reality creates our beliefs. We tend to believe only in what we can see, and we have hard evidence to support that belief. Unfortunately, for as long as we believe only in the evidence of things seen, we'll be stuck in a life based on "that's just the way it is".

 

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