Barriers -
Barriers To Whatever Form
Of Riches
Fills Your Need To Be Whole And
Complete
I have a doctor friend who
earns an income far above the average. For years, I tried to talk him
into investing his surplus income into ways that would earn him residual
income, but my words were falling on deaf ears. Why? He couldn't hear me
because he had a barrier to becoming rich.
Then one day, we began to look for his barrier to
becoming rich. And here is what we found: When he was seven,
riding in the back seat of his parent's car, he overheard his parents
comment on their neighbor's new car. Here is what he heard them say,
"They must have stolen the money to buy that car. They couldn't possibly
have come by it honestly."
Based on that remark, his seven
year old mind concluded: "Rich people
are the bad guys. I'll never want to be one of them!"
His barrier, like all
barriers, was built out of flimsy logic, a wicker basket that could
never hold water long enough to get the basket out of the well.
A Barrier to Another Form of Riches
I spent a number of my early years believing that
nobody loved me. Where did that conclusion come from? When I was maybe 4
or 5 years old, I followed my older brother to school one day. When he
finally noticed me, we were only a half block from his school. He chased
me all the way home, angry because I was making him late for school.
Like my "nobody loves me
barrier", all self-limiting barriers are ridiculous, erroneous
conclusions based on emotional reactions to some insignificant
happening, or on some form of misinformation. As flimsy as they may
be, those barriers are there, standing between you and your being able
to have the life you want.
If you are not rich in
whatever you feel lacking in your life (health, relationships, wealth),
it is because you have some sort of barrier that stands between you and
your choosing to BE rich.
Almost everyone wants
something from life that they don't have. They don't have it because
they haven't chosen to BE the one to whom that something belongs. They
haven't chosen to BE that successful because they have hidden barriers
to making that BEING commitment.
My first book asks the
question, "So, Why Aren't You Rich?"
with the intention of putting you in touch with
your barrier to becoming rich.
My second book, "The Why
Aren't You Rich Workbook" is filled
with exercises designed to help you remove those barriers.
My third book "Being The
Solution", shows you how to choose
your way past those barriers. After you've chosen, your barrier will
still be there, but once you've made your new BEING commitment, you'll
be dealing with that barrier from a position of power.
My fourth book "To God Or
As God", will help you understand
what that power looks like in you and how it works. You will learn
there's no limit to your manifesting powers, other than those foolish
ones you've set for yourself.
Once you've chosen to be rich,
your barrier to becoming rich will have no more significance than a
detour sign would if you were traveling from Los Angeles to New York in
your new car.
The "I'll Never Be One of Them" Barrier
Once my doctor friend uncovered his barrier to
becoming rich, and considered the source of that misinformation, he was
able to easily choose past it.
He made his new BEING choice
soon after removing that barrier, and is now well on his way to becoming
wealthy. Please note, that the means by which he could have become
wealthy were available to him for all those years of being held back by
that barrier.
Only after he made the new
BEING choice was he able to see the opportunities for becoming wealthy
and take advantage of them.
But he came through the back
door, so to speak. He dealt with his barrier prior to choosing to BE
rich. Now I have a better way.
In my book
"Being The Solution"
I've written about what I feel is the best way to
deal with your barrier and that is, to simply choose past it. Once
you've chosen past your barrier, it will still be there, but now, you'll
have the power and adequate motivation to deal with that barrier as an
insignificant detour on your way toward your chosen form of riches.
So,
How Do You Choose Past A Barrier?
Use your imagination to visualize what your life
would be like if you were as rich as you could ever want to be in
whatever form of riches fills your need to be whole and complete.
Once you've added the power of
enthusiasm, joy and excitement to that vision, you will be adequately
motivated to make your new BEING commitment.
Can you see how much easier the
handling of your own barrier would be, if you were seeing it as a minor
obstacle on your exciting and enthusiastic journey toward achieving your
dream reality?
And Then There's My "Nobody Loves Me Barrier"
For many of my early years, I lived my life out of
a reality, based on the false premise that nobody loved me. But it is
important to realize that there was absolutely no truth in that premise.
It was true for me only because I perceived it to be.
My problem was merely the
effect, the net result of a BEING choice, made out of a childish
reaction to an insignificant incident that I had made significant. Most
people would be utterly amazed at the number of barriers in their life
that are based on that kind of misinformation.
At any time, had I know then
what I know now, I could have easily chosen my way past that barrier.
Back then, I had a victim story to tell. Now, I know that there are
no victims. There are only the consequences of poorly made BEING
choices. I suffered all those years needlessly.
The power of choice is
there; it's always been there waiting for you to find your inner power
and then to use it.
The only thing necessary to
change the quality of your life is that you change the pattern of your
thinking. You can do that today, tomorrow, next week or never. The
choice is yours to make.
The Law of Being: We become what we think about.
The Law of Attraction: What you have in life must
correspond exactly to who you are.
Life Is A BEING Choice
Every moment of your life requires a
BEING choice. Every situation you face requires a BEING choice. In each
situation you must choose who you will be before you can deal with it.
When you allow
yourself to see that all of life is a BEING choice, when you see the
light, you'll realize that the solution for your problem requires
nothing more or less than a new BEING choice.
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Chapter 1, The Quantum Leap,
from my book
"To God Or As God" - Pg 10.
The Quantum Leap
Choosing out of unhappiness into happiness is a
quantum leap you could take at any moment of now. Why not choose
happiness now? The quantum leap happens any time you change your mind
about who you are, or who you will be. It also happens once you've
change your mind about what you believe. That quantum leap, in each
case, will be a transformation in consciousness.
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Chapter 2 - Our Resistance To Change
from my book
"So, Why Aren't You Rich?" -
Pg. 48
The Hidden Reasons
Our reaction to a childhood experience can leave
us with an attitude problem that will haunt us for the rest of our
lives. We chose in that moment who we would be under those
circumstances. And now, old enough to know better, we still react in the
same way whenever faced with the same or similar circumstances.
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Chapter 1 - Poverty Is A State Of
Being
from my book
"Being The Solution" -
Pg. 11
Defining Rich Or Poor
Although rich is about who you are, not about what you have, what you
have is truly a measure of who you are.
Chapter 7 - Creating A Burning Desire -
Pg. 77
One of life's greatest truths is what we
believe creates our reality. The problem is
that most of us bet our lives that the exact opposite is true, that
reality creates our beliefs. We tend to believe only in what we can see,
and we have hard evidence to support that belief. Unfortunately, for as
long as we believe only in the evidence of things seen, we'll be stuck
in a life based on "that's just the way it is".
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