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Being In A Box Is No Big Deal Unless.........

 

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You Live In A Box; I Live In A Box; We All Live In A Box

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So, what is a box?

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  • Your box is your perception of reality made manifest

  • Your box is your self-concept being demonstrated as your reality

  • Your box is your self-worth, limiting what you may have in life

  • Your box is who you've chosen to be reflected back at you

  • Your box is your self-imposed limitations

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So, what does a box look like?

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  • It looks like, I'm dumb;

  • I'm a klutz;

  • I'm a victim of circumstances;

  • Nobody loves me;

  • I'll always be poor;

  • I don't like my job, but I can't quit;

  • I'm in a rat race;

  • I don't like my situation, but it's safe;

  • I never have enough money;

  • My expenses always seem to rise to meet the level of my income.

What's your box?

 

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Being in a box is no big deal, unless...

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  1. You forget that you created the box you live in.

  2. You think there is no way out of the box.

  3. You want out and can't seem to get out of your box.

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(1) How did you create your box?

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  • By accepting someone else's point of view about life,

  • Or by choosing the opposite point of view.

  • By choosing how you would react to the circumstances in your life,

  •     -  By, choosing whom you would be under those circumstances.

  • By arriving at conclusions, that may or may not, have been so,

  • By having an attitude about it (good or bad),

  • By being convinced that you were right about all of the above.

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(2) Why you think there's no way out of your box...

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  • To know otherwise would destroy the illusion you've chosen to call reality.

  • Because, for your ego, there is no other reality.

  •     - And, when there's nothing outside the box, there is no way out.

  • Because no-way-out is what your ego would have you believe.

  • Because a transformation in consciousness would be required.

  • Because your ego doesn't want you being transformed.

  • Because your ego IS the box you life in.

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(3) So, how do I get out of my box?.....Easy as A, B, C

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  1. You must want out so bad you can taste it.

  2. Then you create your vision of a bigger box.

  3. Then you choose that bigger box.

Example:

(A) As a boy, I had a terrible inferiority complex. On the way to school, I always looked down so I wouldn't have to face anyone. I found a lot of lost money while looking down, but I didn't make many friends that way.

 

Looking back, I can actually be grateful for that emotional hole in which I found myself, because my need to get out of that hole gave me the powerful motivation I needed to find my way out of that box.

 

Because of that powerful motivation, I climbed a little farther out of the box than most people seem to go.

 

You will need that sort of burning desire, A WHY, POWERFUL ENOUGH TO GET PAST YOUR EGO'S RESISTANCE TO CHANGE, if you really intend getting out of your box.

 

(B) But, as a boy, I was blessed with a powerful imagination that I used to think (dream) about what life might be like outside my box. I read every book I could find that might help me THINK my way out of that box.

 

Gradually my vision of that bigger box began to seem more and more real to me, more believable. In other words, my hope, became a belief.

 

YOU MUST BELIEVE IN THE POSSIBILITY OF A NEW REALITY BEFORE YOU CAN CHOOSE IT!

 

(C) At some point in that transformation (that's what it was) I made a solid choice to BE the one in that bigger box. (Choosing a bigger box to play in is not about choosing what to do. IT'S ABOUT CHOOSING WHO TO BE.) Once I chose, things began to happen to demonstrate that I really was, now, in a bigger box.

 

I had a teacher tell the class how smart I was. I needed that praise to get me over the hump! (But I could not have been there for that praise had I not, first, chosen to live in a bigger box). And from that point on, I got "A's" and "B's" instead of just barely passing grades. Living in my new box, I made many new friends. I was truly living in a larger box! THAT'S THE WAY IT WORKS!

 

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THE UNIVERSE IS SET UP TO PROVIDE YOU WITH EVERYTHING

THAT BELONGS IN WHATEVER BOX YOU'VE CHOSEN TO LIVE!

 

BUT REMEMBER THIS: YOU ALREADY HAVE EVERYTHING

THAT BELONGS IN THE BOX YOU'VE CHOSEN.

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What you want will always be outside the box!

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So, how do you get out of your box to get it?

As I said, it's as easy as A, B, C

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A.  You must want out so bad you can taste it.

B.  You must create a powerful vision of yourself in a bigger box.

C.  You MUST choose that bigger box.

 

(A)  is important because without a burning desire for the end you seek, you'll never make it past your ego's determination to maintain status quo.

(B)  is important because without a powerful vision to motivate you, your ego's fear of change will win and you won't.

(C)  is the step that most of us leave out in the becoming rich process. And because it's the most important step, most who want to be rich, won't be.

 

Nothing really happens until you make the commitment. But, once you're committed, you can expect your new reality to be demonstrated.

 

In the meantime, maintain your vision until it becomes real for you. Use the Power Pause as your powerful transformational tool to take you past your ego's mind chatter, past your weaker moments to the experience of that new reality.

 

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YOUR BOX IS NOTHING MORE, OR LESS, THAN YOUR SELF-CONCEPT,

BEING DEMONSTRATED AS YOUR REALITY BY YOUR EGO.

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Tired of being trapped in that box?

Choose a bigger one.

Choose a more comfortable one,

this time replacing lack of, with rich in.

 

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To learn more about how you created your box and the steps you can use to move into a new box, read  Chapter 5 - Your Self Image, Chapter 6 - How To Know What You Want and Chapter 7 - Creating A Burning Desire in my book "Being The Solution".

You can download FREE the 1st few chapters of this book from the right hand column of this newsletter.

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