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Would You Like A Solution To Your Problem?

So, what's your Problem?

  • Insufficient Income?

  • Unhappy Relationships?
  • Poor Health?
  • Lack of Confidence - Self-Worth?
  • All of the above?
  • Or name your own problem.

Would you really like a solution for your problem?

I'm quite sure you would, but the odds are, that you won't be giving up your problem in favor of a solution. Why is that? It's because your ego maintains the reality in which your problem now exists. It is important for you to see that your ego wants you to keep the problem.

I repeat this over and over again in all of my writings, because I want you to realize that you created your own problem reality by choosing who to BE. Week after week I remind you, that what you have or don't have in your life is there as a direct result of who you've chosen to BE. Once you accept that, you'll have the power to make a new BEING commitment.

Have you made your new BEING choice? ...the one that would have your problem dissolve and disappear? If you haven't, then I have to conclude that your ego is winning the battle of the wills and you've CHOSEN TO KEEP YOUR PROBLEM, because for all of us, it is a choice. We can choose to "BE" the solution or choose to "BE" the problem.

I don't believe in victim stories. We choose the roles we play in life by choosing who we will BE. If you are seeing yourself as a victim of unhappy circumstances, it's time you rethought your point of view. You can't BE a victim, if you chose that role to play, can you?

Is it time for you to say "NO" to your ego? "NO" to what you don't want and "YES" to what you do want? Wouldn't you like to regain your power, by choosing to no longer be the victim? Wouldn't you like your problem solved?

If you really want your problem solved,

play the following visualization game with me.

 

First, I want you to see that your reality was created by a vision, a mental picture of the way it is for you. Your self-concept vision and your concept of reality vision combine to create your current concept of reality. Your current reality concept (vision) determines the life you will experience.

Please get, that you created that vision that now dictates the quality of your life. You wrote the script that your ego uses to maintain the material reality of that vision. Remember what I said earlier about choosing to keep your problem?

Your ego's job in life is to maintain the reality in which your problem exists. You'll keep your problem until you choose out of that problem reality. Can you now see why I can say with such certainty, that most of us choose to keep our problem?

If you really want out of your problem, create a new vision; write a new script for your life, a new role for your ego to play. Put your real self back in charge of your life.

To start the vision game, let's review the effects of the current vision.

Pick your problem from the list above. Think about your circumstances regarding that problem for a moment. Think about all the ways that problem shows up in your life. Experience any bad feelings that come up for you as you think about your circumstances. I assume the thoughts are not pleasant ones.

Now, allow yourself to see, that it is those negatively charged emotions and thoughts that actually maintain your current reality. As long as you continue thinking those thoughts and feeling the fears and worries, you will perpetuate your problem. Your problem will remain in existence until you change the vision.

How do you change the vision?

Use your imagination, that is, if you haven't forgotten how, like many of us have. When you were a kid you were great at what-if games. Back then, it was great fun imagining all sorts of new possible realities. Your imagination is your creative power. Use it now and see if you can remember how good you were at the what-if game and imagine your life as it would be like if that problem no longer existed in your reality. How would you feel if you were free of that problem? Capture the feeling!

What we're doing with this exercise, is creating a powerful vision to replace the one that now runs your life. You see, if you can create this new vision and maintain it until it becomes your new reality, you will have changed who you are BEING and transform your life. So, let's continue our job of Imagineering your future.

  • Imagine having more income than you could possibly spend!

  • Imagine your life filled with nothing but happy loving relationships.

  • See if you can create a vision of enjoying all the things you'd be doing if you were really healthy.

  • See yourself facing the world with total self-confidence and a can't lose attitude.

Okay, let's stop and review what we were attempting to accomplish with this exercise. We were playing with changing the quality of your life in the only way that's ever possible, by changing the vision that runs your life. This visualization process really works to change lives. But remember: Having what you want from life is a BEING choice! We can choose to "BE" the solution or choose to "BE" the problem.

 

**Read an excerpt below from my e-book "The Success Blockers".**

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My e-book "The Success Blockers"

is about the 5 success blockers.

  1. Our Self-Concept

  2. Our Belief System

  3. Our Story

  4. Our Attachments

  5. Our Attitude

Excerpt from "The Success Blockers"

Why are we so change resistant?

As an individualization of God, you’ve created your own reality, and now live and move and experience life in the reality of that BEING choice, but not as a god---as your ego. In the process of creating your own realty, you’ve forgotten your True Identity.

Being a god gives you the power to individuate yourself and then to experience life from that point of view. You’ve used your god power to define your individuality, and in the process, developed amnesia and the illusion of separation.

In choosing who to BE, you’ve assumed the role of your individuation, your self-definition. Now, your reality concept illusion has become a cage of self-imposed limitations. The walls of your cage are your fears of what unknown dangers may lurk beyond the boundaries of your current reality concept and your story.

Your fear of change is now your greatest barrier to manifesting further success in life. 

In defining your individuation, you’ve separated yourself from God and trapped yourself in your own creation. Your separation from your god self is a natural part of the individuation process, but in the process of choosing a reality concept, you’ve given away your god-power to that which you’ve created.

Your reality concept trap has become five powerful blocks to further success.

The Success Blockers are:

  1. your self-concept,
  2. your belief system,
  3. your story,
  4. your attachments
  5. and your attitude.

These five ways of BEING YOU are how you’ve defined your individuation and created your very own unique reality concept. In these five ways, you’ve taken on the identity of your individuation, and are now experiencing life in the box created by choosing that reality concept.  

Now that you’ve chosen a reality concept, you’ve turned the maintenance of your reality concept over to your survival (fear) motivated ego. With those BEING choices, you’ve chosen a reality concept in which to experience life, but that reality concept—your assumed identity—has become a box, a reality with self-imposed boundaries, and the keeper of your box is “your ego

"The Success Blockers" is only available in  e-book format  and can be purchased for $4.95 on my website www.richbits.com . Click on the shopping cart link to purchase.

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