How can I BE rich when I truly don't FEEL Rich?
D L Wrote:
The Problem:
Hi, Darel:
Here is my problem - never having enough money to pay my bills on time and do many of the enjoyable things I want to do. It seems that on those rare times I do get ahead financially, some emergency expenditure knocks me back down again. I feel very discouraged and ashamed that I'm not doing "well" financially despite being very resourceful and creative in finding new avenues of funds. How can I BE rich when I truly don't FEEL rich?Thanks for any help you can providing on my problem with a BEING solution.
Best, D L
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My answer:
The becoming rich process can begin only after you've acquired a prosperity consciousness. Once you've acquired that magnet-for- money consciousness, you will be well on your way to becoming rich. You will be like a flower attracting bees to your nectar. You will apply your resourcefulness to ways of making money that you hadn't dreamed of before.
Until then, money will flow in the direction your consciousness dictates--away from you. The only solution for your problem is the BEING Solution in which you choose to BE the one who has your money problem solved.
So, what is a prosperity consciousness? You'll laugh when I tell you. A prosperity consciousness in nothing more complicated than "feeling good about yourself when you think about your relationship to money." So you were right, D L. You cannot BE rich when you don't FEEL rich!
The obvious solution to your problem would be to change your relationship to money. So let's see if I can show you the way.
The first step in changing that relationship would be for you to realize that you DO, IN FACT, have a relationship to money. Early on in your life, you chose who you would BE in that relationship, and have been maintaining that way of BEING relative to money ever since.
More than likely, you parents were the pattern you used when you chose how you would relate to money. So, what did your parents tell you about rich people--that they were the bad guys and you shouldn't be one of them? ...that money was evil and all rich people are greedy? Doesn't matter what your story is, or what reason you've chosen not to be rich, you've got a story and a reason, and now, unless you change both your viewpoint and your reason, you can never, ever, be one of them.
So, your steps out of that, "feeling poor" box would be
1. First create a vision of yourself BEING wealthy, having more residual income than you need to live comfortably. See yourself living where you would live, doing what you would do if you had so much money you'd never have to do a day's work again, unless you loved what you were doing.
2. Choose to BE the one in that vision. Choose to BE healthy, wealthy, and wise.
D L, it really is that simple. I said simple, not easy!
To change the content of your life, you must first change the context. Having more of what you want in your life will require a change of consciousness. What does that mean? It simply means that you must change your mind about who you are. When you read my book, BEING THE SOLUTION, you'll find that you are far more powerful than you have ever imagined.
You have the awesome power of being able to choose who you will be. Once you've chosen, the Universe will respond by supplying you with everything that belongs in the reality of that BEING Choice. But there's a problem, a barrier to your using that power successfully.
You see, God gave you and ego, who's job is to maintain whatever reality you've chosen with your BEING CHOICE. Ego does its job by screening out everything that doesn't fit. If you've previously chosen to never be rich and want to change your mind, your ego will reject that change with all its considerable might.
Reading BEING THE SOLUTION, will point you down the path to a powerful change of consciousness and a new richer life, but unless you have help with that transformation, your ego will have you back in the box.
Where do you get help? In the Online BEING Workshop, you'll be set up with your own powerful Power Pact support group made up of two others who are on the same path as you. During the eight weeks of that workshop you will given powerful tools for dealing with ego resistance to change. I can't even imagine anyone doing the workshop and not being transformed in the process.
So, my advice Dee: Read the book and take the workshop if you really and truly want to acquire the prosperity consciousness that makes you a magnet for attracting money!
D L, Hope this answers your question,
Darel