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"A Being Solution? I still don't get it!"
A money Problem:
Hi Darel: thanks for keeping in touch, and I am sorry you had email problems: I have read your sites several times, and despite being intelligent, I still don't "get it." That is, being a solution.
As kids we were often asked "What are you going to be when you grow up." More often than not, that was a "no-brainer" since limiting thoughts had yet to surface: being a fireman etc came easily to us all!
So why is it, that now, in adulthood, the concept alone is hard to understand! Since I know what I want i.e. more income, and even with visualizing $$$ in the bank, it still does not get through?!! regards MC
The Being Solution:
MC, thanks for your question.It's the most often question I get asked. And, you've phrased the question perfectly:
"Why is the same question a "no-brainer" for kids, yet hard for adults to understand?"
The reason the idea of choosing a new way of being is difficult for adults and not for kids is because kids are still open to new ideas, while adults have a concept of reality that's basically locked in stone.
Our adult reality becomes so real and unchangeable because we have a powerful ego whose only job is to maintain that chosen reality by screening out all ideas to the contrary. How did you and I create that reality? ...by choosing who to BE.
In your case, the reality is that the money you visualized in the bank is not showing up there. And because "not showing up" is your reality, THAT is the reality your ego must maintain in order to do its job. In other words, your visualization of the $$$ showing up in the bank is contrary to the reality that your powerful ego is determined to maintain with all of its considerable might.
You see, MC, even though you do the visualization, your real focus is on the problem of the money not showing up. When you focus on the problem, that becomes your reality. To solve your problem you must focus on the solution, not the problem.
We human BEINGS, made in the image and likeness of God, have only one and often unrecognized power--that of being able to choose who we will BE. By choosing a way of BEING, we create the reality that we now experience.
To change that reality, we only need to change our way of BEING. How do we do that? ...by changing the pattern of our thinking.
You see, MC, we humans are governed by two powerful laws:
The Being Law: We become what we think about
The Law of Attraction: We automatically attract who and what belongs in our life as a result of our BEING choice.
It shouldn't take too much logic to figure out that:
We could change what we have by changing who we are BEING, and
We could change who we are BEING by changing the pattern of our thinking
Now, let's see if we can apply this logic to your problem.
Your problem obviously persists because you focus more of your attention on the problem than you do on the solution.
Your problem would be solved, therefore, if you could maintain your focus on the solution for long enough so that IT became the reality your ego MUST maintain. Simple solution, huh?
So, the answer to your problem is simple logic, and once you apply the BEING Solution to your problem, you can be as certain of the results as you can be that, tomorrow morning, your living room couch will be exactly where you left it the night before. How can I be that certain? Both the Law of Gravity and the Law of Being are principles--laws that cannot be broken.
But now we come to another problem...the fact that your ego will resist the proposed change with all its considerable might. And that's why I wrote BEING THE SOLUTION and why I conduct Online BEING Workshops ..to help YOU and others find their way past that powerful ego resistance.
If are still having trouble deciding how to apply the BEING Solution to your problem, and if you haven't read BEING THE SOLUTION, perhaps you would find the concept easier to understand if you read the first four chapters of my book.
I'd be happy have you read them for free.
Thanks again, MC. Your question will help a great many people with the same problem.
Darel