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My Problem is money/career related

A Money Problem:

Hi Darel

 

Well thanks for the opportunity to write to you

I have read through the other examples and found snippets of what I think could help but it seems either deeper or something I cannot Get or put my finger on is holding me back.

 

My problem is money/career related

 

It seems that I am and have been happy in most areas of my life except this one and have always had stress and problems at least inside myself in this area

 

I purchased your book back in Feb 2002 (its great). I have read it at least 3 times and have gone for periods of months doing the Power Pause.

 

I am constantly looking for ways to BE the one but I really don't know if I am getting it, as the results are hard to obtain. I can honestly say I have put in a good effort but there is something missing and I really don't know what. I have faced and overcome many big issues in my life but this one, well she is stubborn.

 

I don't know if I am supposed to say a little of my story, I will just say that I was bought up in a wealthy home where my father controlled everyone including my mother with money, they are divorced, she is broke he is still wealthy.

 

I was groomed to take over the business, but could not get on with my father so left to do it myself. IT’S been many failures almost making a great success only to have things fall apart at the last minute.

 

I can see from your book what is happening with the ego etc but all the same it keeps happening, even doing the Power Pause. I think that I have chosen and I work on being worthy

The last thing I want to do is give up

 

I am endeavoring to Invest funds using various techniques to developed a residual income as that is how I want to earn my living

 

I hope I have given you enough info Darel so that you may see where I am missing something.

 

I have this feeling inside that this resistance will give me an enormous gift (relative to the strength of the resistance) if I can just get what it is that I am not being

 

Please feel free to do with this what you will Darel, edit etc

 

Many Many thanks in anticipation

 

GR in Sweden

A BEING Solution:

Thanks for the question GR. It's always interesting, to me, that "being the solution" can be so difficult a concept to grasp for so many. But, of course, I know why that truth remains so well hidden from the majority.

 

Each and every one of us on this planet Earth has an ego whose main job in life is to make certain that we don't learn this truth. What truth?

 

Our ego would die if we learned that we're not our ego, that we are, in fact, the spirit of God within; that we have the power to make new being choices. It would die if we learned that the reality we now so painfully endure, as victims, is nothing more than an illusion created and maintained by that powerful ego.

 

Ego can't have us learning the truth that would make a lie out of our victim story. It can't allow us to see that we actually chose that victim role to play. It doesn't want you to see that your reality is just an illusion, because then you'd realize how easy it would be to change.

 

How powerful is your ego? It's powerful enough to make you believe you've made a new being choice when you haven't.

 

So, GR, here are some principles you need to incorporate into your thinking. A principle is a spiritual law or a law of physics--a law that cannot be broken. In other words, like the law of gravity, it always works no matter what.

 

The BEING principle says, we become what we think about. So, if you've decided to change who you're being, you need only change the pattern of your thinking.

 

You say, you've been working at that--using the Power Pause, but it isn't happening--the problem persists.

 

So, GR, if the law always works, and it does; in fact, it never fails. The results you're getting can only mean that you spend more time thinking about the problem than you spend focused on the solution.  Change your focus and pay attention to the mind chatter that diverts your attention and your intention!

 

Here's another one of those laws that doesn't seem to be working, but it always is: Intention = Results, Always.

 

When you say you've chosen, but the results haven't shown up, I know that your powerful ego is conning you. You only think you've chosen. You haven't. Otherwise, you'd be seeing some sort of tangible results.

 

Oh, you're seeing results, alright, the results of a powerful ego with a different intention than the one in your Power Pause vision.

 

Or to put it another way. Take a look at what's happening in your life. Notice the results you've obtained and you'll know what your (your ego's) intention is.

 

Those are just generalizations about your problem, but then again I don't really think you've described your problem specifically.

 

For instance, you say,

I am constantly looking for ways to BE the one but I really don't know if I am getting it, as the results are hard to obtain.

And my question is, ways to BE  what? Obtain what results?

 

To have the BEING Solution work for you, you must know what you want, paint an exciting joyful picture of your life as it would be if you already had it, and then choose to BE the one in that picture.

 

Once you've chosen, use the Power Pause to maintain your vision for as long as it takes, or until your ego stops resisting the change.

 

Once you've transformed yourself by changing the habitual pattern of your thinking, the Law of Attraction will supply you with everything that belongs in the reality of your new BEING commitment.

 

Since you're obviously having trouble with the transformation process, find two others who would also have desires to change their lives; form a Power Pact group that will support you during your periods of self-doubt.

 

And GR, maybe I could help you paint a mind picture so exciting you'd have to choose to BE the one in that vision if you could be more specific about what end result would solve your money problem.

 

Darel

 

PS You might also want to consider taking the Next Online Being Workshop.