To solve your
relationship problem, you must first change your perspective on the problem.
Miraculous and
instantaneous changes can happen in a relationship as a result of
using the Power Pause for changing your own attitude and perspective.
But
it's not really a miracle; it's a principle in action --a spiritual law--The
Law of Correspondence.
Once you change who
you are BEING,
everyone in your reality must adjust to the new you.
The Power Pause is a three step process
for taking charge of your thinking. You'll learn about it in Chapter 11 of
"BEING THE SOLUTION". The Power Pause works based on the principle, "We become
what we think about."
This simple visualization process
allows you to change who you are BEING in a way that cuts past your ego's
natural resistance to that change. When you
change who you are BEING relative to the perceived problem, your problem
will simply dissolve and disappear.
The Power Pause is not the means by
which you can cast a spell on the other person and get them to change. The
problem is not with them, it's with you.
The Power Pause works its magic by changing who you are
BEING relative to what you have perceived the problem to be. The other
person's change will be in response to the BEING change in you, and your
problem will seem to have solved itself.
You have the power to change your reality. You've
always had that power, but now you have the tool for implementing the change
you want. It's called the Power Pause. So use it!