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by Darel Rutherford

Two simple steps in raising the bar on your self-confidence -- and in finding
the power to solve all your problems

Can you even imagine what your life would be like if  you were 10 times more self-confident?

Allow yourself to dream!

Imagine what life would be like if you were...

• Healthier,

• much happier and

• so successful your income doubled or tripled

Believe me! The only thing thing standing between you and having the life you really want is  your self-limiting belief that you can't have it. Once you've removed those limitations, the sky's the limit. And the jewel you'll find once you free yourself of those self-limiting notions, is self-confidence.

Once you have real self-confidence, life becomes a wow!! experience, not a "poor me" victim story. Here's you chance to go for the wow!

Self-confidence is the most powerful form of riches on the planet. Once you have that, you can have anything else you want in life. Hear me on this! Belief in yourself is all it will take to make you healthier, wealthier and happier than you have ever been before.

So, do yourself a big favor, right now. Stop reading. Allow the idea of having ten times more self-confidence sink in -- allow the idea of being that confident become your burning desire! Believe in it and know that It will happen if you are sufficiently motivated to follow these two simple steps to personal power!

To raise the bar on your self-confidence,
              do these two things on a daily basis.

1. Stop giving away your power

2. Add to your personal power daily

Let's look, first, at the real drain on your personal power.

You and I give away our power  on a daily basis by telling ourselves victim stories.

You think you don't have a victim story? Think again! We all have victim stories, and when you start paying attention, you'll see how many. With each story we tell, we we give up personal power big time.

I'll give you a personal example:

Every two weeks, a team of five cleaning ladies come to my house to do the cleaning. They do a good job and get it done in about one hour. But while cleaning, they also rearrange some things that I would rather not have moved. Clocks turned the wrong way used to upset me more than I like to remember.

Back then, I'd usually explode with, "Damn it! Why can't they ever put anything back where it belongs. Look at those pictures! Almost every one of them is hanging crooked!  Why in the *&*^*%  can't they leave things where they found them?

Does my reactive behavior remind you of anything you might be doing as well? I thought so! I want you to see that your reaction and you story about it -- "They did it to me again" -- is a victim story, pure and simple.

What's wrong with complaining, is that your victim story implies that you are powerless to solve the problem. And that's not true! You’ve turned a molehill into a mountain, and now that molehill, for that moment, has your power.

But you are not powerless! You have the power of the Universe behind your word and by telling yourself a victim story, you've used that power to render yourself powerless. How wise is that?

So how do you stop giving your power away? Put yourself on the alert  with the intention of catching yourself telling those victim stories.

Here are some more examples of victim stories:

• That damn wind really upsets me

• It’s too damn hot

• I hate cold weather

• She makes me ill

• I hate it when he does that

• I hate my job

• My parents treat me like I was still a child

• I’m in a hurry and that idiot in front of me is driving the speed limit!

• How many times a day do you complain about something?

Pay attention to your thoughts! Your complaining is your victim story. When you make excuses for why your life isn't working, that, my friend, is your victim story.

We all have victim stories – many victim stories -- We're constantly telling ourselves victim stories.

Your first step in halting the power drain is to begin to recognize your excuses or complaints for what they really are -- disempowering victim stories. Make it your intention to stop the power drain! Notice that you've given your power away to something as insignificant as the weather! Take back your power and see how much more powerful you feel.

Your true purpose in life is to discover whom you really are, to come to know that you are, in fact, an individualization of a God who experiences life in and through you as you. So, how does being a victim help you find that inner power? Being a victim empowers you only in that moment when you choose consciously, to give up your role as a victim.

Try this empowering process for all of next week and then, next Sunday, I will send you another simple process for adding personal power every day. Hang on to your hat, you're about to unleash the powerful genie!

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Article by Darel Rutherford, Permission to reprint this article is hereby granted provided the following contact information is included:  darel@richbits.com or http://www.richbits.com/Money/Index.html ========================================
 

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