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Why not...
...Try a different way of looking at the problem?
I think you know:
Problems are
almost
never solved with the same
mind set in which the problem was created.
So wouldn't the
solution for your problem
be a simple change in your mind-set?
Here's
the mind-set in which
the problem exists and persists:
The
woman I'm married to is not
the woman I thought I married
What happened to the sweet, loving
girl who made me so happy before the wedding? Where did she go and why?
A
change of
perspective
Maybe she went away when you stopped
treating her like the sweet thing you thought she was, then.
Maybe, the way you treated her back
then, was the reason she was so in love with you and wanted to please you
back then.
But that was a
different mind set, wasn't it? What do you suppose would happen if
you treated her even half as nice as you once did?
The solution to your problem might
be to recapture the mind-set that had you loving each other. If you need
help in the process, you might want to read:
BEING THE SOLUTION
The real key to a happy
relationship:
"Make sure she likes
herself when with you."
-- Chapter 15, Solving Relationship Problems,
BEING THE SOLUTION
But the real solution
(not just
a band aid)
for your
"not the woman I married" problem,
would a more significant shift
in your way of BEING in that relationship
To accomplish that you might
want to
sign up for the BEING Workshop
About the being
workshop
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